There's this guy that I kinda like. We've been talking for about a month now. We've progressed from texting to talking (whoa...heavy stuff lol). Anyway, I really enjoy talking to him. We have good conversation. I know that he enjoys talking to me too because he told me so and calls me every night before he goes to sleep. He even calls again if I don't answer the first time. I think his effort is cute. However, what I don'f find cute is the fact that I can never call him. This is awkward because normally, I hate calling people anyway. I like for them to call me, so that I know I'm not interrupting anything. He's a pretty busy guy. One day, he mentioned that I never call him. He always called me, which was true. I've heard this in the past, so I stopped being a wuss and started calling him. Eventually, I realized that my reasons for not calling him were very valid. Every time I call him, he answers, and then says he's busy and he'll call me back later, which he usually does. I checked my call log and no outgoing call to him has lasted longer than 7 minutes. I try to call him during the times he's called me in the past, but it's too random. The times range from 9pm-1:30 am. Now, I'm starting to feel like a sap because he can always call me to talk, but I can never do the same. Last night, he called twice in a row and I didn't answer. I felt like a loser for making myself so available since I like him. Am I being way too over-sensitive? When I call I can hear the gym or him driving in the background. It's not like he's with some chick or something. He has no schedule, so he just lives randomly like most single people without kids do. What do you think of this situation? Any advice is appreciated. :)
He can call me, but I can't call him...
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