How to isolate a girl from her friend so you can ask her out during school?

[JesseRider23]

there's this chick I really like at my school... I am a junior in high school and so is she. I want to go out with her and ask her to the prom.. I wanted to do it during a class where we both sat next to each other, but we just had our seats changed so that way of asking her out went out the window. I have a few other classes with her (don't sit near her in any of them) and I often find her staring @ me when I am not looking.. I want to approach her and just ask her out already, but she is always with her friends.. and I want to ask her alone.. so how do I isolate her from her friends? and should I ask her to the prom or to go out with me first?

thanks in advance.

[Frank24569]

Ask her to prom first I would say and to get her alone somewhere I say just wait it out. If she likes you she will definitely make an attempt to be alone at least sometimes so you can maybe make your move. So just wait because I'm sure there will be a time when she is alone maybe walking to get something or do something and when you see her do not hesitate and think twice to go up to her and talk to her, just burst out a "Hey Ashley" (I will use Ashley since I don't know her name) without thinking about it and ask her to prom because the time you see her alone will be a rare one and if you don't make your move it will be a while b4 you c her alone again, keep that in mind. Good Luck and I hope you make it to prom with her.

[gonaners16]

"hey ashley" lmfhao break out tha puppet...

[JesseRider23]

Yeah.. just gotta get her alone at some point haha

[jbone79]

seriously kid, never use the word "isolate". That's just creepy. Just ask her if you can talk to her for a minute or try to get a spot next to her in a lunch line or something, Isolating someone is some serial killer shit you see on tv...not cool! good luck pal and chin up! - j

[smokeandmirrors]

LOL! You're right though.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Fend off the other women! This is crucial! :D

[JesseRider23]

Thx lol... ya isolate is kinda a weird word to use.

[calgirl]

lol yeah isolate is not the best word to use, but we know what you mean. ok so I would definitely go to prom together first before you ask her out, this way prom can be like a date, and if all goes well and she seems into you, then you can try for more.

as far as getting her alone so you can ask her, well, I don't know if asking to talk to her for a minute while she's with her friends is the best idea. I feel like that would be awkward...well unless you're casual about it. if there is no possible way that you can ever find her just walking to class or after class alone, then yeah I guess you could CASUALLY (as in calm, cool, and collected lol) ask to talk to her. good luck!

[Anonymous]

i would ask her out on a date first so you don't have to go through the first akward situations on your prom night. get to know her first and see if you really like her as much as you think you do. as for getting her away from her friends, she probably isn't with them alll the time. just look for an opening if you don't want to be around her friends. good luck

[JesseRider23]

Thx.. great idea this is what I was thinking before I posted my question

[girl182]

Ask her to prom first and a way to get her alone would be like maybe if you hangout with her at lunch and then afterwards you could be like do you want to come to my locker with me to get my stuff? you guys would be alone and youd have time to ask her

[voodoochild]

link

[JesseRider23]

Very solid link bro

[voodoochild]

You're welcome :D

[the-love-guru]

If you have a vehicle, ask her during school that you want to show her something in your car after. Have a note/card , and in it ask her to prom... girls like thoughtful things like that. If you don't have a car, stick a note (or card, it's a bit more thoughtful) and slip it into her locker. She'll still appreciate the effort. Best of luck!

[Kiet_Ngu]

tell her friends to leave straight up

and go to prom with her first and then after ask her out

at prom, show her that you know how to have fun

dance a lot

[namelesstranger]

You could sew a Borat-style marriage sack and use it to carry her away to somewhere more private... ;-)

[smallz660]

Wow three down arrows? People have no sense of humor.

[Anonymous]

That is abuse and it shows you could be an abusive partner to this girl if you don't want her to have any friends because you want to spend more time with her.

[Anonymous]

Since this is June the prom must be over - please leave a post and let everyone know if you got to take her to the prom or no.

[angeleyes11]

ask her to prom first