Lol, I refuse to go to prom too. All my friends are nagging me to go but I hate school events and I too hate the majority of the people in my school. I'm planning a trip to go to Mexico with another friend who isn't going to prom and party or go to Korea, solo.
If you don't want to go, don't go. Seriously. I think promo is too hyped, crap food, people you don't like, just lame. Encourage your girlfriend to go with another date. That's admirable of you to trust her with someone. If she wants to go to prom, she deserves to go with someone but if you don't want to go, just don't go. Save yourself the hassle, I know I am and make better use of your time.
I hate how people are saying prom is a lifetime event and whatnot. It's just prom. You wear a fancy tux/dress, take a ton of pictures with your friends and your date, eat crap food, drink the spiked punch and dance to mainstream music.
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Sometimes the relationship isn't all about you. Just go. It's kind of mean not to go with her. Maybe you don't get the point or whatever, but it's important to a lot of girls and it would be extremely selfish of you not to go. It's not as expensive for guys as it is for girls, so don't act like its soooo expensive. My date and I bought our tickets separately, ask her to do that if cost is such a big deal. But a tux, food, a ticket, and a corsage for her is not as expensive as dress, make up, hair, nails, ticket, boutonnière for you (girl buys guys boutonnière, guy buys girl's corsage), purse, shoes, special underwear (sometimes you need a special bra for a dress or something), and anything else she needs. Get off that "it's so expensive" soap box and let your girl have her fun with you on prom night. It's just one night.
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Oh my dear boy, when the girlfriend wants to go to prom, you go to prom! It's really as simple as that. She wants to go to spend time with YOU not her friends or some other date. Prom is what you go to when you're serious. It's not like Homecoming or the Valentine's Day dances. Prom is serious business in HS.
So bite the bullet and take your girlfriend to the prom already.Just go. Its only one night and its not going to kill you , besides your girlfriend is going to hate you if you don't make this the most magical night of her life.
Well if you really like this girl, id say buck up amd just go. She (like most girls) has been dreaming of this event for a very long time, and by you going (even though you dont dig these sorts of things) can show her that you really care for her a lot. She won't forget this! If you're not totally in love with her, then stay home. I dont know your girl, but a situation like this could be a deal breaker, so keep that in mind.
To make het happy. U shud go, for her. I didn't wanna go to prom either but for my bf, i did ( i was late, cuz i didn't rlly wanna go but still did) nobodys making u go but just kw rhat itll make her happy
go if and only if she sacrifices her plans for you in the same way. if you two are not having sex, or she gives her friends more priority than you... DONT GO AT ALL..
Sometimes it isn't about you
Suck it up and be a man.
Stop being selfish or start looking for another girlfriend. If I was your girlfriend, I'd dump you.
go for her.
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