So my brother (22) is getting married this summer and every guy in our family who is going to the wedding is either married or has a girlfriend except me. Obviously I’m extremely happy for him. However I do wonder if I will look like the loser of the family if I don’t have a girlfriend by then? I’ve neves had one.
First of all, you're still pretty young. There's no law that says you have to be paired with someone by a certain age. No I don't think you'll look like a loser. And who knows, you may meet someone from the bride's side while there. Don't overthink it too much.
Great myTake by the way. Every night I lay in bed and reflect on the highs and lows of the day, I self-reflect a lot and sometimes I can be my own worst enemy.
Thank you! And self reflecting isn't a bad thing. You shouldn't dwell on your shortcomings and such. Just take note of what could be better and then work towards it. Don't put yourself down. Rise up!
My shortcomings with girls all kind of fit into one specific topic. Flirting. I can't flirt if my life depended on it, I feel like because the fact that I'm not naturally good looking, That I have to have the perfect first lines if I approach a girl.
Lol funfact: flirting doesn't come naturally for a lot of people. The key is to just be yourself without overthinking. And don't focus so much on girls and relationships right now. Live your life!
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So my brother (22) is getting married this summer and every guy in our family who is going to the wedding is either married or has a girlfriend except me. Obviously I’m extremely happy for him. However I do wonder if I will look like the loser of the family if I don’t have a girlfriend by then? I’ve neves had one.
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First of all, you're still pretty young. There's no law that says you have to be paired with someone by a certain age. No I don't think you'll look like a loser. And who knows, you may meet someone from the bride's side while there. Don't overthink it too much.
Great myTake by the way. Every night I lay in bed and reflect on the highs and lows of the day, I self-reflect a lot and sometimes I can be my own worst enemy.
Thank you! And self reflecting isn't a bad thing. You shouldn't dwell on your shortcomings and such. Just take note of what could be better and then work towards it. Don't put yourself down. Rise up!
My shortcomings with girls all kind of fit into one specific topic. Flirting. I can't flirt if my life depended on it, I feel like because the fact that I'm not naturally good looking, That I have to have the perfect first lines if I approach a girl.
Lol funfact: flirting doesn't come naturally for a lot of people. The key is to just be yourself without overthinking. And don't focus so much on girls and relationships right now. Live your life!
But every girl I fall for just got out of a relationship so that means I'm already waiting too long.
When the time is right, you'll know. Things tend to happen when you least expect.
But as a guy aren't I expected to constantly be looking and hunting? The main thing I want is love and affection.
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