Would you hookup or have a ONS - if you didn't have a valentine date or someone to celebrate with?

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Minahelp · Accepted Answer

Depends on how you perceive valentines, if it’s not a big deal to you then why not. However, if it’s a day that you deem as special then I wouldn’t suggest to. You’re only going to upset yourself in the long run

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's my SOP... Vday. My birthday. NYE. Memorial day. Labor Day... if I'm not in a relationship I go to a bar and end up in a hotel room head down tail up with someone who's name I don't bother learning!

Avicenna · Answer

No, I think people can handle being alone for one day

NewsReader · Answer

Do people expect singles to get laid on V-Day no matter what? Where do I sign up?

Guy13 · Answer

Nope, because my conscience would torture me to death 🤷🏻‍♂️

silvermoon84 · Answer

I’m not really the hook up/ONS kind of girl. Not bashing anyone who is but it’s not my thing. I’m always single on Valentine’s Day and it really doesn’t bother me. I hang out with my single girlfriends or will take myself out to dinner and a movie. Yes it would be nice to have a valentine date but I’m fine without one.

MidnightOwl57 · Answer

No, I haven’t. And I never will. I'm not into hookup culture.

To me, sex is the most intimate activity people can share with each other. You may turn off your mind as much as you want to, it still doesn’t change the fact that you can’t get physically closer to others than by having sex with them.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

*gasp * on a weekday night? Heck nah, il be in bed by 10pm lights out at 11.

That being said, if I was single, I am sure I would go out to a singles event at a local bar or something after work say 6:30ish. I think it would be pretty cute to meet someone on Valentine's day and I'm sure if the conversation was right, I would give them my number to follow up on a real date.

Gummy_Cluster · Answer

I'm too lazy, but doordash will deliver anything from hamburgers, hamster food, to Jim Beam. So I think by this time next year, Valentine's day will be a game changer.

Valso · Answer

I don't have a Valentine's date or someone to celebrate it and it's like that by my own wish. I lost my trust in women long ago regarding romantic relationship. Nowadays if she wanna f*ck, we'll f*ck and that's it. If she wants something more, she's gonna have to work hard to prove to me she isn't one of the endless number of gold diggers and therefore worthy for me to lower my guard around her.

ZackBan · Answer

If I was single then I would be down for an ONS any day of the week Valentine's day or not.
That being said for the first time in my life I'm seeing someone during this time of year and so I have a Valentine's day date.

Jaylenn · Answer

I don't need sex on Valentine's or any other day of the year.. If I have a date on Valentine's great, if not.. I just enjoy the day like any other, and pick up cheap chocolate and half price roses the next day..

menina · Answer

Nope, I would never do that. I'm not into hookups nor ONS. Besides there's nothing wrong with being single.

Katebfun · Answer

Maybe if the oppurtunity presented itself. Honestly I'm not seeking casual sex at the moment and just having 1 night with someone I liked would not be worth it.

Red-Blaze · Answer

Not becouse of VDay no, may do for completely unrelated reason, but its just one more day for me if had no plans for it

Saramodel · Answer

If my friends were taken and I felt alone, I would go seeking some guys to make out with in a bar.

molonski2 · Answer

Hell yeah , if all the boxes were ticked , why not indeed. Not for just the sake of it though.

Lucy68 · Answer

No thank you, plus I'm so repulsive no one would have sex with me honestly. Actually I think I'm my own birth control

Emiliamazing · Answer

Nooooo! No reason to do that on any given day. Patience grasshoppers

Tomisworthless · Answer

I’m not sexually attractive enough for woman to have ONS with me or they see me as a closeted gay but whatever it is I’m still lacking in love and affection. I just don’t think I’m gay as I don’t want sex with men

Alessa13 · Answer

I might if I felt like it but it also is not a big deal to me either.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Desperation? No. That’s sad. Maybe good for most guys.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

Nope. I tried that in college. Made me feel more empty than when nobody was interested in me. To only have women want to fuck and nothing else.

Anonymous · Answer

no. that would also make me feel 100x worse about myself. but lucky i already have someone, so i don't worry.

LovingJo · Answer

Sure, but not just because it's valentines day, but because I wanted sex. Full stop. 😂

Anonymous · Answer

You can't really know what you would do until you're in that situation. The last time I spent Valentine's Day alone was probably 2002.

humanearth · Answer

Nope, not my thing. I'm a hopeless romantic and fall in love to easy

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have never been that desperate.

Twalli · Answer

No, I didn't before, so I wouldn't now. Plus I have a girlfriend, even though we can't be together then.

zagor · Answer

Not any more or less likely on VD, which is essentially meaningless to me.

Sparkie460 · Answer

I'd never be able to have a ons. I need to know the woman I'm sleeping with

WeirdoFriendly · Answer

Absolutely. That's what I've been trying to get this entire year. A hookup or one night stand

es20490446e · Answer

No. I want a girlfriend, no someone who wants me half arsed.

Anonymous · Answer

Literally every girl I've hooked up with has said they aren't a party girl. Just nod in agreement, play along, and then shortly after that I'm fucking them.

Samhanks · Answer

If I want to hook up or have a ONS I can have any day of the year !!!

Alex8736 · Answer

if the atmosphere goes from mild to wild absolutely on any given day 😘

Cheerfull009 · Answer

It is not necessary to hookup on Valantine day, my Valantine is at present not with me, at long distance now

Anonymous · Answer

I would, as long as she could prove she's clean.

Anonymous · Answer

Crazy. Great way to catch that new version of AIDS the media isn't talking about... and no test is testing for. Anyone still having casual sex or hookups in the last 2 years are asleep!

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely I would… without a condom too…

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Nah what's the point?

Wise4myage · Answer

No, I am not desperate.

Anonymous · Answer

Just another Tuesday for me. It's only a special day because of all the chocolate haha

RainbowFran · Answer

Sure, if I was looking for a little fun, casual sex

Vaporvan · Answer

No, Valentine's isn't even a real holiday in many countries, why care so much about it?

SnowedIn · Answer

Nope.

lightbulb27 · Answer

no, that's for the selfish and heartless.

SarahP080102 · Answer

Yes, I would, Yes, I have and Yes, I will again.

alice55 · Answer

No I'm gonna eat pizza and watch netflix.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe but doesn’t need to be for Valentine’s Day, could be just because I’m lonely

Makeushiver · Answer

I'd certainly entertain offers

elizamichale1 · Answer

One nights r what i do usually

annabananna · Answer

No, that would depress me.

Punk-y · Answer

I don't do hookups

Anonymous · Answer

No im really scared of STD's

boobliker · Answer

Yes, I would just love that!

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

I domt understand One Night stands

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. My days of hooking up are behind me.

nawtee_me · Answer

That is not what Valentine’s day is about.

Damcky · Answer

Yes. Means she is alone too. A mutual benefit..

driven159 · Answer

life does not revolve around a date

Fuentes · Answer

To smash out for a night and dip then yesn

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