When do men usually ask a girl out for Valentine’s Day by? or is he just not interested?

[Anonymous]

Do men plan/ even think about these things or is it more of a girl thing?

[ProbablyClueless]

Definitely more of a girl thing, but some guys try to put in effort for brownie points.

I used to put in the effort, but women's frigid responses have basically killed any joy I got from it.

[itsclearlynicholas]

If desperate. I'm a little jelly (jealous) each valentines day and other occasions, however I don't let it proccupy my whole mind or mindset. I enjoy treats for me, me me me and giving back with donations to charities

[KrakenAttackin]

Women have become so entitled and their expectations so unreasonable, that Valentine's day is just a day guys DREAD.

[Anonymous]

men don't do shit lol