I met this guy about a week before school ended. He is going to a different school in the fall, but in the same city.
We became facebook friends, and were sort of jokey-flirty. We wrote a LOT to each other. Things elevated to texting and some I'm conversations and talking a couple times.
By the CONTENT of what we say to each other, its a lot of joking around, flirty, and a conversation you could have with anyone you really got along with.
By the FREQUENCY of our interaction, I'm not so sure. He often takes a whlie to respond to facebook & text messaging (which I know is instant). He even came to my city twice over the summer, but never even mentioned he would be in town. I called him once, but he said he was busy & he'd call back, but he sent me a text at 2am saying that he just got caught up in things. but nonetheless, never called me back.
He is probably the sweetest guy I've ever known (it's just his personality). I live where there are a LOT of attractive people around, and he's probably not the most attractive guy. I'm not trying to be mean, just honest.
Even so, I WANT this guy. I fantasize about him. He is absolute sweetest guy, and in my estimation, not a player.
It's been THREE MONTHS since I've met him. When we were still in school, he vaguely suggested we 'hang out' together, but there was no follow through.
Okay, so perhaps these are not the most fortuitous circumstances to be judging someone. giving that we've been on break.
But, if I were a guy, I would have tried to make more of an effort to talk to/meet up with/hang out with a girl.
And I think I've been fairly obvious with flirting. We talked about sex, masturbation, and I joking/flirtingly commented on his body a few times. I don't know what else I could have said, short of "I WANT TO FUCK YOU"
Do actions speak louder than words? Is he interested or is he just being friendly?
Note: I'm getting weary wanting this guy. so I didn't say anything to him for four days, and I get a text from him after 4 days saying "things are pretty quiet over there." Would you say that to a friend?
"things are pretty quiet over there." - this is just general conversation between friends. Nothing to worry about.
In my opinion, either he has that diease that all guys have, in which we are slow to realize when a female is really into us. This guy really seems to be clueless though. Maybe you need to be more straight forward with him, if that is possible.
You should also try to accept the worst, as it doesn't seem that he is too interested. He really shows the signs of a guy who might already be takened.
Me being a friendly guy, I know I would at least contact a FRIEND if I were to visit their city. He could have been mindlessly having a good time, but he also could have told you he was coming in advance.
I know you want this guy, but I say wait for a guy that's more interested in being with you. Thats not to say he's not, but his interest in being more than friends, needs to grow.
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