Whats wrong with me..

Xper 5 Age: 35

so I keep getting a constant feeling that I'm boring.. because I don't go to a lot of parties and such.. so I keep getting the feeling I'm too boring for any girl.. your thoughts?

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Reeses-pieces777 Follow
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I don't think so. You can't just correlate boring with not going out. Although you don't go out to a lot of parties and such, you may have other interesting qualities or talents etc.

I don't go out to a lot of parties personally, personally don't want to make an ass of myself after getting drunk, so I tend to stay away from it unless it's a special occassion like my friends' grad, wedding, etc etc.

It doesn't mean you are boring if you don't go to parties.

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Xper 5 Age: 36 , mho 58%

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I don't go to a lot of parties either, it's just not my thing. I don't think that makes you boring at all. You must be interested in other stuff that makes you fun! Have any cool talents? Or any other cool interests? You've got to!

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- Gabzor
  
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  Well I like photography and hanging out and stuff.. but I'm kind of a loner right now =|
  
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- jen-82
  
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  Aww no. Those things are awesome! Photography! I find that so interesting! I'm sure that there are girls out there that are like me and would love to see your photos. It's really artsy - a lot of girls are attracted to that!!
  
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Petertheniceguy Follow
Xper 6 Age: 36 , mho 64%

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just because you don't party, doesn't mean a girl wouldn't like you! it means a party girl might not think twice about you (and in the long run that's a good thing.) you will be THE guy to go after, once your out of highschool. as far as women durning school goes, stick with sports events.. show up, and make yourself known!

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- Gabzor
  
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  Im actually known extremely well in school..because I used to play football, but now I kind of shoot photographs for almost all the sports in school.. but I really don't have any real friends..
  
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toguro16 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 33 , mho 63%

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dude!, ur just like me, I'm a loner at my school and I don't like going to parties and stuff. but for me I've never truly tried to realy get a girl without embarrasing myself and feeling put down. I hope we both get lucky man.

i hope dis helps

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- Gabzor
  
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  Ha I feel you.. I'm a loner but I know everyone too that's the thing but we both gotta just keep pushing and being ourselves
  
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- toguro16
  
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  True dat
  
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curiousgirl Follow
Xper 5 Age: 36 , mho 35%

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no way! oh my god I would love to meet a guy like you. I hate partying. you're not boring- just the opposite! you have a very refreshing quality

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- Gabzor
  
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  Thanks.. the world I'm in doesn't think so though..
  
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- curiousgirl
  
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  Typical boring people are the partying type. that's not special. you're special. you'll get better people liking you just the way you are!
  
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- Gabzor
  
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  Someday then I guess.
  
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Mellene Follow
Xper 6 Age: 36 , mho 60%

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You're great, nice to see someone who is not party addicted.

And you can't be boring just because of not going out a lot =)

Usually people go to the parties to get drunk because they can't socialise

while sober! How simple is that!

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