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Why did she immediately start hooking up with other guys?

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philinthe (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years and she was devastated, but immediately went out and started hooking up with other people. I was going to get back together with her but now I am not sure if I want to. Do you think it's a bad idea?

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thebeegees
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thebeegees (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 days ago
I dated a guy for 3 years, my first everything. And the minute we broke up, I'll admit quite honestly I became a loose cannon with others. Her hooking up is just a way to bring up her self esteem and know that she is wanted by others and not just you. It doesn't even closely mean she is over you though.

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purdylilangel
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purdylilangel (Age:18 to 24)      When: 26 days ago
I think that yeah she was devastated and that's why she went right out and saw other people that's just what some people do they are hurt and feel lonely, I'm sure since you guys were together 4 years and she just wanted to feel needed. The whole rebound thing ya know! I think you should talk to her if you really want to be with her tell her, most likely she feels the same way and she is probably sorry. Good luck!
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wonderingwhy
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wonderingwhy (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
I think it's a bad idea because she seems like she's moved on, back on the prowl, and doesn't give a damn. Cut her off, if she sleeps around like that, what good is she to you? F*** her.
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GucciBri
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GucciBri (Age:Under 18)      When: A month ago
well for one, she was hooking up with people probably because she was with you for 4 years and hadn't had any other sexual contacts for a long period of time. personally I think you should wait at least 3-4 weeks b4 saying something, but then again she could find some one else in that period of time, soooo its a hard call
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girls-like-boys
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girls-like-boys (Age:Under 18)      When: 5 months ago
She probably started dating other guys because she was with a guy for so long she doesn't know how to live without as guy so it hard for her to be alone. She might also be trying to make you jealous so you will want to go out with her again.
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Newyorklady
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Newyorklady (Age:36 to 45)      When: More than a year ago
Its called rejection. You just rejected her, and she needs to know she is still wanted by a men. She is am sure still in love with you. If you want her back you need to open the lines of communication but be sure this is what you want. don't real her in and the cast her out again.
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lorli-august
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lorli-august (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Yeah it's a bad idea, you don't seem to be so into her. what's wrong? not enough fish in the sea after all?
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roxanna
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roxanna (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
She was just rebounding. That doesn't mean that she doesn't still love you- if you want to get back together with her, then I would tell her.
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tex151
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tex151 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 4 months ago
Well the sad fact of the matter is this, women can get over a break up way faster then a guy, they have tons of friends to get them through their hard times, and us guys have what a few close friends and a bottle of jack, while we are planning on how to get them back, they've already found a new guy and its too late she's over you, happened to me man I mean you can try and get her back but chances are you'll break up again, but if she's already hooking up with other guys she's over you, my advice move on.
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Aedak
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Aedak (Age:18 to 24)      When: 7 months ago
She went and slept with a bunch of people right after you two broke up, yeah it's a terrible idea to get back with her.
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