I've seen this girl I find walking around my school. She is not "conventionally" attractive, but I personally find her very attractive. Apparently she lives in my area and I didn't even know. I saw her working as a cashier at a CVS and just decided to ask her name tell her I'd like to get to know her better right on the spot. She gave me her facebook and IM. People were behind me on the line so there wasn't much time for conversation; plus I admit I've never really just approached some woman I don't know so I was a little outside my comfort zone.
My friend works there and I told her to ask her about me. My friend said she just asked who I was and said I seemed nervous which I was.
So, girls: if a guy is visibly nervous when approaching:flattering, or "lack of confidence?" It takes balls to approach at all so I would think that counts for something.
I actually think it's good because that shows that you're special and more than just another girl to him. It's better than being really cocky about it. And at least you asked, so it's not like you don't have any confidence
Depends, if she is into you, or thinks your attractive it's cute. If she's not into you, then it's not so cute. Either way approaching her does count for something, you'd rather be the guy who comes off nervous, than the overly cocky, "thinks he's the man", kinda guy! That guy is one thing only.gross!
I think it's cute. Iv met a lot of guys who got really shy around me. I would try to make them feel comfortable. I don't know if it worked, but they always came back to me :) I get flattered when a guy gets nervous around me.
Well, I'm rather shy myself, so I give credit to anyone who can bring themselves forward. It shouldn't matter too much if a guy seems nervous, but it depends on the girl. Honestly, though, I don't think it will affect her too much that you were nervous.
This kind of depends, for me. If I was initially interested in the guy before he even approached, then I'd probably see the nervousness as flattering; I tend to be turned off by overconfident guys lol. I think just the fact that you got the courage to approach her could only say good things about you, so how she feels about it now is completely her decision :]
you are right because its counts for something when you get enough courage to approach them,but its kinda show a lack of confidence and that's not attractive.
Yeah, it does bro. Congrats on that. I diminish nothing of your effort and accomplishment.
Now go approach 100 more women until you stop being so nervous. Seriously. That's the next level.
Most women know it's hard to approach them. Half of them really really really wish more guys had balls like you, but they all DAY DREAM about a smooth, confident dude that just walks up and takes what he wants and needs nothing.
You're still a ways off on that, but well on your way. Step it up.
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Well, if it's over like 25 then that's just a lot of girls to be sleeping with and there is no way you cared about them all. Same should apply with girls too, though.
I have them too, from growth spurts when I was a teenager. Guys don't even notice them or, by the time they do, they don't care because they are already crazy about you (stretch marks and all).
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