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My boyfriend hates talking on the phone. Guys what do I do?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I've been with my boyfriend almost 2 yrs. he has always hated talking on the phone but lately, the hate is even stronger. he's fine when ever were together but when it comes to talking at night he doesn't want to talk to me, instead he likes playing halo 3.

For example yesterday I didn't see him because I went out with my friend because he told me he was going to do something with his. his plans got canceled and instead he played halo the whole damn day.

i called him at night and told him to get off and talk to me. he had a pissy attitude. I'm always telling him that its good for a couple to communicate it isn't just hey lets go out and not talk about anything.

so what do I do?


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badass
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badass      When: More than a year ago
i absolutely hate talking on the phone.
wont even call girls that I am attracted to.

so if that's the case, go visit him
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Hercules
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Hercules      When: More than a year ago
I've known people who HATED talking on the phone. Also, maybe he just wants some me time? Try to find other ways to communicate with him? You're also young (under eighteen), but if you weren't I'd suggest going over to his house to surprise him.

Yes it's possible he cares more about the game than you, but I don't think this is the case.
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
Uhhhhhh, just sorta deal with it. Seriously, some guys just hate talking on the phone, let that be and just talk to him in person. And Halo 3 is a particularly awesome game, I can't say I blame him for getting interrupted and being pissy about it. Think about it, if you just got to a really important part in your book and your best friend calls 'just to talk'. It's gonna get annoying sometime. And the game isn't that easy unless your an expert so he probably really wants too beat it on the hardest mode. Of course you are going to be important to him but maybe for this at least give him a little space. It's great that you ant to communicate and all but at the rate your going you aren't even taking his interests into mind. After he finishes the game, all will be well, but, for now, just deal with it.
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hillary18      When: More than a year ago
I was in a long distance relationship where we HAD to talk on the phone because we lived three hours away and there would be times where we had fights and arguments that we spent hours and hours on the phone trying to work out, then the weekend would come, we'd actually SEE each other and everything we had chatted about on the phone meant nothing because we felt different being in each other's presence. Point being, maybe you should respect that your boyfriend would rather TALK to you IN PERson, that gab away for hours.Its too easy for things to be fake that way.
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ThatNikkiGirl      When: More than a year ago
Uh, yeah, a guy is going to be pissed if you tell him to stop playing Halo to come and talk to you. To put in perspective, it would be like him calling you during Grey's Anatomy or One Tree Hill (my little sister, 16 years old, loves that show), not cool at all.

How dare he play Halo all day instead of hanging out with his girlfriend and her friend! [/sarcasm]
I'm not saying that it wouldn't be fun or whatever, just that to a teenage boy, playing Halo would be a bit more enjoyable than hanging out with two girls.

You said when you two are together, that all is well.
**If you two make plans to hang out and he spends all his time playing Halo or any other game, then there's a problem.**

I'd like to know what you both want out of your relationship with each other.

Communication is fine in a relationship, but it doesn't have to be an everyday thing.
You don't have to spend all your time together with him. You are two different people with your own lives. Let him play his Halo and get your own hobby.
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