I feel for you. :( He could get pissed at you directly because of the situation so it's something you have to change if you want to keep him since the phone seems to be your main method of communication. There are other ways to communicate besides the phone you know. First you need to consider how good you hear your friends in person as compared to how others seem to hear them. Pay attention to how good you can follow a conversation as compared to your friends, like in school, over the PA system, etc. How about how you hear the TV or radio compared to others, etc. Next, get their opinion on how they understand your boyfriend? Do you think you hear good on the phone with talking to anyone else? If you KNOW it's because of your sh*tty phone or service provider than of course that's the reason. Can't you supplement your communications by the use of texting, emails, Facebook, online chat, etc? From the location you usually talk with your boyfriend are you getting a good signal or a poor one? That would make a big difference and that has to do with your provider or where you live... and only maybe because of a poor or very cheap phone. Do you put the amplifier on your phone to high volume? If all these things I mentioned seem positive to you then it must be in his voice. Maybe he does mumble a lot so make sure to ask your friends about how they hear him. Also, his voice may not be one that carries very good in person and on the phone... like he has a soft voice and/or doesn't enunciate his words very clearly. I think I said enough here for you to know where to place the blame. Now you need to correct the culprit or improvise ways around it by using other means of communications besides just the phone. Talk in person about this and see if the two of you can come to some kind of understanding that will work out good for both of you. So get to the bottom of this ASAP! No need to let this destroy an otherwise good relationship. Good luck! :)
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maybe try Skype.
that said I remember in college people dealing with long distance relationship while their boyfriend/girlfriend was studying abroad it seemed to me that most issues stemmed from the people just being frustrated that they were dealing and going through the stress of it and that stress and frustration manifested in fights about things that were either insignificant or really just a factor of stress...
so maybe just say something along the lines of look I know this situation is stressful, nto getting to see each, dealign with the phone issues. I thnk we need our convos to be positive and happy because it is the only contact we have with each other. so maybe we can just practice some patience
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My grandparents fight all the time because my grandmother can't hear my grandfather. Then he yells: HEARRRRRRRRR MEEEEEEEEEEEEE and then takes a nap in haste.
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