Is it a general rules for a guy to still flirt with the same girl he said no to going out with ? Is there a reason why this would happen ? I have a guy still flirting with me even though he said no to dinner or just hang out when I asked him This started several months ago when I realized one of my male coworkers was flirting with me . ( I had just got over a major breakup and had not notice it until then) . I thought maybe he was just a kind of guy who was just a natural flirt . I never though anything of it until by chance I notice he changed his appearance . After I made a comment that he looked better with a goatee then a full beard . Thinking maybe he like me a little I asked him out to dinner he never really answers me(As he walk away I say is that a no and just nodded his head . ) To save face I later asked him if we could hang out as friend he said he was not interested in being friends . So I started to ignore him thinking I may a major mistake . However he still showed all the signs that he is into me . And even goes out of his to make sure I know he is around . He even point out that he got his ear pierced with the same type of ear rings I said would like nice on him . Should I give this some more time to develop or walk away ?
This guy sounds like a jerk . I'm not sure if he's a tease, a big flirt, or sadly doesn't know how else to interact with you w/o making you think he's into you . I don't know about you but I've never met or seen a guy who is worth being treated this way .
Note: Is there any history between you and any of his friends ? This would be the only way I could understand his behavior .
No there is no more history beside working together . I have only gone to the company Christmas party with him there . One thing I do remember though around the time I was planing the party I made a comment about not dating anyone and ask if I could bring a girlfriend . The "guy" over hear this and point out he was not dating anyone also mean he had no girl friend . (This happen in early January our holiday party was a little late) - 9 months ago
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He does talk to my ex boyfriend sometime (they are not friend) he used to work for the company I now work at . I got higher on right after he moved onto other job . - 9 months ago
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I have a guy like this at work . For a long time I thought he liked me, he even asked me out once but then said he was joking before I could answer . I never asked him out so in this way you and I are different . The more I'm around him the more I see him doing things like this to other girls . He's just a tease . He probably doesn't mean any harm . If you don't like it though he'll probably stop if you just don't play along . - 9 months ago
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