Overly Friendly and Flirty girls

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I consider this a real problem with women in all age groups. IT is unbelievably huge problem when trying to identify girls who actually like you and girls who just want to be friends. I wish that girls would just act normal around you and show that they are not interested instead of being happy all the time and giving you mixed signals. Of course I realize this doesn't apply to every girl out there but still it is very confusing.

My question is how do you identify who is overly friendly and flirty from the girls who actually are interested in you?

Who agrees and disagrees and why?

Professor_Zoom · Accepted Answer

Women are easy and confusing at the same time. For instance, my cousin hangs out with this girl almost every day of the week. If they are not hanging out, they are either on the phone or texting or chatting online. He says that she is not interested in him and he knows this because he expressed an interest in her and she said that she didn't want a relationship. I say she does like him for this one reason. Everytime they go out, she gets all pretty. She puts her lip gloss on, her hair is right, the whole 9 yards. Sure, some girls just want to look pretty, but she did this when they were just going to 7eleven for snacks and going back to her place to watch a movie. Most women aren't going to get all dolled up for a guy if they're not interested in him. Also, if they're making time for you, they're interested in you. My best friend is a female and we do a lot together, but it's not the same as when she is interested in someone. I'll have to pull her teeth to get her to go somewhere with me, but when she likes someone, it can be 2am and she is there. Again, a woman who is interested in you will go out of her way to make time for you. A woman who isn't won't. That's not saying that my friend won't go out of her way for me. She has my back. But it is still different than when it's a guy she likes. And going back to the girls getting pretty part, my friend doesn't get pretty for me. She does it for herself, but we have gone plenty of places and she hasn't put on any make up. I can't say that for the woman who have liked me.

So those are just two things you can look out for. A girl getting pretty for you, and a girl always spending time with you. If she gets herself pretty and you're just going to hang, she's interested. If she makes time for you, she is also interested. Those two together means that you better make a move on her.

joshuathebomb · Accepted Answer

i do agree that girls send mixed signals. but the way you know if they really do like you is when they are around you and they don't talk a lot and mainly because most girls that like you are shy to ask.. look for that girl that you find staring at you from across the room and not the one that is all up on you giggling and laughing.  anymore questions and if this doesn't help message me..

Ichikwon · Accepted Answer

easy! even if you know that she likes you or you finally telling her your feeling yet you still feel confused and question her feeling towards you (even if you got rejected) then she's playing games, means she doesn't like you. there's three type of girls, if she seems aloof and looked uninterested, then she likes you. if she's hot and cool she's friendly but still wants to become your friend (or with benefit). the last is when they really act clingy towards you all the time, then she is a player and player loves attention or guys buying her things to validate her ego all the time, she's freaking loves it. the key if you feel confused, then she's wasting your time and you're right making intention clear will never solve anything bcs that's what's she wants she wants to play you and steer you, so move on early.

sat351523 · Accepted Answer

You can tell if a girl like you by asking their friends if the girl ever talks about you, smiles at you, is nice to you, or just having our friends go up to her and asking her. Some girls would rather you go up to them and ask her, cause the chances are is that she likes you. If you do like her than ask her to a party, or a movie or something. If you don't like her, still ask her and talk to her and tell her that you just want to be friends with her in a nice way, cause you don't want to make her upset.

lorahayes · Accepted Answer

to be honest I know I'm a flirt but I'd like to think the guys I fancy can tell, whereas my friends know I'm jut being my usual friendly self.. I think unless the girl is on every guys arm you can kinda tell who she truly likes, but I know what you mean lol

girlsguys88 · Answer

im super friendly with guys I'm not attracted to and invite them out etc. I've realized at my age, I can't do that and not be kidding myself because it's always backfired, ie they eventually take it the wrong way or take it as an opportunity or whatever.

anyways, my 'tell' is that I'm all extraverted and fun and outgoing w guys I'm not into but if I'm attracted I'm calmer and less aggressive, more cautious in speaking to guage/read how they're communicating w me.

Hughman · Answer

Agreed, a bloody nightmare.

All you can do is ramp things up. Engage in kino (touching them, subtly and non-sexual), start getting into their personal space.

If they respond, keep pushing till you get the make out or you're fairly certain they'll join you for a date.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree there are guys like that too and it's frustrating.  One thing to do is observe their behavior around others. If you notice they are really friendly and flirty to other people, it's probably just their personality. But if they save that energy for just you then you know she's interested.

salldk · Answer

if the girl can actually sit down and have an honest conversation with you and look you straigh in the eyes then she is not an overly flirty girl. I know this cause I can be an overly flirty girl. a lot of the time the girl is just way to nervouse to be her self but if she can actually be her self around you those are the ones to go for

Collegeruger · Answer

i think both men and women show mixed signals. how bout we just make signs. one switch says I like you the other says I just want to be friends. lol but yeah I wish it was easier to tell

n3wgrass · Answer

If you're interested in the reason behind the way flirty girls act (possibly because you're interested in them), you should ask them instead of doing all this guesswork.

LisaMarieCarter · Answer

Ask the girls friends if she is like that all the time or just with the people she likes

Titi18 · Answer

Hahaha Honestlly that's so true.

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