I am 17, she 16. Well at the beginning of the school year (September) it was obvious she did like me, but I didn't at the time because I liked someone else. She tried her damn hardest everyday In class to get my attention and sit near me in assemblies or speak with me, I never really complied because I was just plain not interested.
Well 9 weeks roll by (November) and the schedules change and she isn't in my class anymore. Now then I realized, DAMMIT WHAT WAS I THINKING! And I come to notice this gal was giving me the stare through the halls of school (small school). And until a few weeks ago I though not a thing of it. I notice this girl, every time I walk by her, she stares, when I look back for a split second. She turns her head away (Typical girl eh? ). In the lunch line when I am sitting in my table, I see her from the distance with her gals, once again, lets look at me until I look back. A few times she would deliberately cut in front of my path while I was walking, don't know what that was about, and In the mornings when hardly anyone is in the school, walking in halls, usually alone like a lot. Will either A: Go to the direct opposite side of the hall as me right as I come in sight. Then there is B: Cut directly to the side of me and get within a hairs distance of me. The other day I had a perfect chance, I was in the line and she and her friend just turn around and look right at me for a good 2 minutes, I just pretended not to notice because this was just awkward as hell for me.
This gal has very few friends, I can tell, clearly very shy but for some reason now I want her. Drop dead gorgeous to me, and from what I observe she and I may get along well. She may also be intimidated, I guess you could say I am one of the more attractive males at our school. But what she clearly doesn't know is I am much much more intimidated by her, she might want me to make a move, but the way she does her thing it just can't happen.
The real trouble comes in how the hell I am supposed to approach a girl who is turning her head like this (I am shy too, I admit). If does she likes me (Which I think she might, I can just kind of feel it too. ) Why can't she just say something, I don't think there is a way I can, Its hard to talk to someone who is coming your way while walking. Should I just wait until she makes a bolder mover, or just say screw this? My options are in the halls, done (Go out to lunch now, so no cafeteria). Its too hard to do it there though! And we have one more month and I want her by then. Give me options, also could this mean anything even? Maybe she doesn't really like me and I am over analyzing things?
She reminds me a lot of me. I'm shy too and I try to drop hints if I like a guy but I would never make the first move. You have to come up with a way to ask her out (she will be thrilled if you do this). Because she is such a shy girl, odds are that she won't make the first move. She's probably sticking to the stereotypical guy asks girl out thing. You could find out where her locker is and leave a note on it telling her to meet you somewhere after school. Then you could ask her out. Come up with something creative. You could either do that (ask her out) or you could make her feel more confident that you like her back by dropping obvious hints. Look right into her eyes and smile at her or something along those lines. Basically hit her over the head with a brick with the fact that you like her. If you make her confident enough she may ask you out but there is no guarantee because of her shyness. If you are doubting the fact that she is into you, don't because she IS into you. She wouldn't go out of her way to impress you if she wasn't. Sorry this is so long but I relate to the girl you like a lot. If you want any more help on this "issue" ask me lol
Maybe you can ask her to go with you out to lunch. Maybe she will feel a little braver if you guys go do something like that or maybe if you know any of her few friends you could like set up a group thing or something.
If she's really driving you this insane I say go for it. The worst she can say is no and that's what you have friends for. If she's looking at you as much as you think she is. I'm pretty sure she must like you. Next time you catch her staring at you say hi and asking her how's she's doing. If she really does like you chances are she's just as shy as you are. Most girls are not that confident to come out and ask a guy out. I say why wait? Ask her out and see what happens.
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