How do you ask a guy if they like you?

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seriously I don't get it. I like this guy, and I want to know how he feels too. but it'd be awkward to just flat out say "hey do you like me?" or would it be too weird to ask?

humptydumpty · Accepted Answer

Options:

1. Flist with him and see if he flirts back. If he does, he likes you, at least initially.

2. Organise to go dancing with your girlfriends and ask him if he'd like to come to. Only ask your girlfriends who aren't going to zone in on him!

3. Ask his best buddy to ask him what he thinks about you. It's easy for a guy to do that: 'I think XXX is cool. What do you think?' Make sure that the best buddy doesn't fancy you unless you could fancy him too!

4. Ask him if he can help you with schoolwork (bits he's good at) - it's a good way to make him feel good in front of you. You can show your appreciation (only if he's worth it) and ask if he'd like to help you one evening with some more. Flutter your eyes and if hes' up for it, you'll know pretty soon!

5. You could just kiss him and see, of course! Only advise that if he's quite self-confident and if you're sure he'll stop when you want to!

Try it and see!

Worst case scenario: your beautiful looks will attract ten other guys before Christmas for some good, unserious, happy, flirty DATING!

dtm-m3rc · Accepted Answer

Me personally. I would say that if you feel awkward about asking him that you should give it some time and just show some interest in him. And talk to him a lot. When the time is right then the guys are the one that usually always will say something to girls when they feel the same way towards you. Make sense?

darlanoy0510 · Accepted Answer

If you talk to him everyday, you could start talking about movie and tell him that you really want to see it but  your friends are not available. Also it have to be a movie that he wants to see too. If he is smart and not shy.he'll get what you are trying to do. I did it before and it worked because I had a guy asked me out.  With this scenerio you will end up exchanging number and a date too. Sometime you need to make a first move to get the info that you want.

Hercules · Answer

You can always do the o'l have a friend ask him for you, or just spend more time with him. If you talk, smile, laugh, and hang out with this guy a lot, then the odds of you figuring out his feelings pretty much skyrocket. If the two of you keep wanting to spend more, and more, and more time together, it'll reach the point you're looking for, granted it might take a little longer than just asking.

dannyboy187 · Answer

It depends on the situation, I mean if the guy is a total stranger then THAT would be awkward.  What you should do is ask him to hang out with you (see a movie, study with him and what not).  Don't forget to get his number and email addy.  You should be able to pick up on his interest level, unless the guy is a total player.  If not, wait until you two are alone and drop it on him (DO NOT do it in front of other people).  He should reciprocate if he has any interest.

englandtoireland · Answer

flirt and if he responds then ask him in a squeaky and cheeky voice "do you like me" make it into a joke sort of but let him know that you like him. will leave the bugger weak at his knees,works for me everytime! :))

zac23 · Answer

For this I will have to say that you 1st find out if he is interested in u. if he it's not awkward to ask him. it may end up into just friends or a goof relationship. for sure.

u can ask him definately.

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