well, there is this guy that I'm into that's in one of my classes that I really like. He is reaaaaaaallly cute in my oppinion but for some reason super shy, and dosn't hang with a lot (any) girls. I've started talking to him but whenever we do it seems like he gets really nervous and dosn't know what to say. I'm the one asking most of the question and convo. But I'm pretty sure he likes me because whenever we pass in the halls and stuff I see his face light up and he says hi to me and does that little nodding thing with his head. I also catch him looking at me in class. But anyway I'm wondering how I can open him up enough so he has a little courage to say how he feels and eventually ask me out or somthing. And like I said he is really shy so any suggestions?
Ask him! I was and still kind of am one hell of a shy guy, but I would have loved it if a girl asked me out. I heard back in high school that a few girls liked me, but was so shy I couldn't ask.
Ok so how do I ask him out without scaring him away? because keep in mind that he still isn't that comfortable around me - 11 months ago
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I'd say to try to do it discretely. What I find interesting is that by your description of the guy, sounds exactly like how I was in high school. I never went to any dances (including Prom) because I was so shy to even ask a girl there. The first girl I ever dated asked me to take her for a ride in my car somewhere, then she opened up along the way and we really bonded. We eventually went to dinner and hit it off from there. But see how she opened up a shy guy like me-Something as simple as - 11 months ago
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(continued from above) a just a car ride someplace. So I'd say ask him for something simple, like help on a homework assignment, "study buddy" in the library, whatever you find is something very simple and discrete. That way you can get to know him better, and make him more comfortable around you. - 11 months ago
if you keep going at it.you'll win his heart eventually.but brake some barriers like next time you see him in the hallway give him a hug and say hi in a nice caring wayit will ake a bigg difference
i never make the first move on girls, but when the girl makes a the first move it is a hell of a difference, I'm basically going %100 for any girl who makes the first move on a shy guy, you'll win his heart eventually, if you keep going at it. well I am very shy and totally can relate to that guy, basically you need to stalk him haha but in a good caring positive way. Go to his locker after class all the time ask him all the questions you can. Go up to him during lunch and just straight up sit next to him. Be nice and laugh a lot and smile. There you go it'll work trust me
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