A girl lead me on, crushed me, and I can't get over it. Help??

Yeah, know how you feel, ditto with me too. I hated it, just as much as you. It wasn't right for her to lead you on and then take it back, it just kills everything. As much as I was upset, I didn't want to lose a valuable friend because of my bitterness. I just needed to distance myself from her a bit and let it all come out of you, lick your wounds and then come back into the game. I know it will take some time for this to happen for you, as it should. You don't want this to hinder your possible future opportunities for other relationships, as you are already feeling that. You have to get past all the hurt and think. . . . Are you going to let this one time affect EVERYTHING from now on? You HAVE TO get to this point and be able to handle this right, you don't want to get sour on girls, just because one screwed you doesn't mean that the rest are going to give you the same thing.

I know you're hurting now, I had my fair share too. We are close friends and after she said how she really wanted things, she tried to sort of blow it off, although it wasn't like she intended or meant it to be, but how I took it was " Sorry this is how it is, I hope you understand, still friends right?" Yeah, sure give me a dose of the truth after leading me on, sugar-coating it with sunshine. Her "it's all good" attitude didn't fly with me. I understand how she felt, and I'm fine if we're friends, but there isn't a need to lead me on like that, sending me to cloud nine and then leaving me falling from the sky onto concrete.

All I can say is to try to let it, all the frustration, anger flow out. Talk about it with a close friend or let it out on this site. DON'T KEEP IT INSIDE YOU, only going to make you sour. Try to meet some new ladies and hopefully it will help fade the feelings you had for her. Hope I helped, let me know! =)

okay it was wrong of her to play you like that but you still gotta rememeber that not all girls are like that. some are like her and see how long she can get a guy to follow her and then she wants to see how he'll end up reacting like if he will go crazy about it and constantly worry and see what he did wrong. so what you should do is just forget about her and go out and like some other girls it shows to her that you didn't really care that she ended up tricking you and you pretty much knew all the time. you can trick her by going of with another girl and maybe if you want show her off to the one that tried to humiliate you so. good luck. but jus go wit another girl and if you want to show her off to the girl who played you and show her that you can do better and that you were jus waiting for her to drop the bomb on u. so good luck man