Why am I mean to guys I like?

That could be another reason guys don't stay with you.

I think it's been said a lot but worth repeating from a guy. I run into this every now and then and can say that 2 months is the most I will put up with it to see if it lifts, after that I am gone and I am more patient then most guys I know.

I get that you feel you can't guard yourself in a small manner and that it's a all or nothing gig but most guys especially nice guys will walk. Honestly this only gets the guys that want to dominate a girl to stick around. It's kind of self fulfilling acts.

Again, there is a difference between confidence and being an ass which a lot of girls don't seem to understand.

Yeah guys are not attracted to bitches that why we they go that girl is such a bitch I wanna slap her in the face, maybe it's just me I don't know I can't stand bitches I won't put up with their crap and I'll tell them how it is.

Stop playing hard to get, get together with a guy and stop making him chase you, most guys do not like chasing girls despite what you keep hearing.

Don't give it all up to him right up front, but a little truth here, a little truth there, if you just keep cutting a cold turkey obviously guys are going to give up on you and move onto a girl who will acctually return their feelings.

Guys don't want girls to be their mother (we already have one of those), we want a girl to be like our friend but you seem to have a twisted idea of what friends do.

If a friend NEEDS something, being a friend you should do it for them. If they WANT something, it depends on what it is they want, if it's not unreasonable then do it and we'd do the same for you, if you just don't do things for guys to "send a message" that you're not going to be taken advantage of, you're out of luck.

Wrong, there is a big difference between flirting and being mean to a guy. It's not that a gtuy can't take it it's that he gets the idea that she doesn't like him. And I see so many idiot girls (such as yourself) who keep saying guys like the challenge. I've seen your questions and answers and you just opened my eyes to why you posted them.

You want to flirt, flirt, don't insult.

You know guys who can't take it if your a little mean to them, those guys are pussies damn. Anyways if she's mean or sarcastic do the same to her, if a guy can't take that from a girl he needs to turn in his man card cause that's just sad.

I never said you were insulting guys, and I'm not insultiing girls, I'm angry at the whole idea of this question.

Cheerangle, by your logic there is no difference between flirty teasing and insulting. You also say that you don't go too far physically and guys don't make an effort to please you. you ever think it might be becuase you're not pleasing them? I'm not saying jump into bed with the next guy you see but with most guys you're not going to get far without physical contact.

As far as the ego thing goes, time, place, opportunity. Early stages of the relationship: Time: mostly alone, Place, anywhere you two are alone, opportunity, don't just randomly say "you suck in bed".

Later in the relationship after the two of you have established a lot of trust, then you can start doing it in front of people and being a bit more random about it.

You just meet him and you all of a sudden say "I can't stand beards" then he's going to get the idea that you're not interested.

Not if you just met the guy and you're trying to get together with him.

As far as sex goes, unless all you're looking for is a boy who goes to chruch every sunday without fail and is always preaching about the Lord's work, then you're not going to get too far with guys. Sex is part of a relationship whether you like the idea or not. Judging by what you said you've probably got a reputation as a "cold fish" at your place(s) of buisness if you're kissing guys but nothing more.

You sound like the kind of girl who would like me if you were to acctually get to know me. I'm very down to earth, I tell people the truth but I also respect others I don't let people screw around with me and unlike most other young guys when I get a girl I want to stay with her considering I (and her) stay happy with the relationship. I don't just dump her and move on once I get in her pants like most other guys.

Here's a surprise, I also agree. Most young guys are only interested in sex, there are however a select few young guys who will respect and wait until a girl is ready for sex. However, I'm not going to marry you until I know that we're sexually compaitible because thaty is a big part of being happy in a marrige.

It's not unheard of for relationships/marriges to end because one partner is not satisfied with the sex life, and here's the kicker: It's not always the man to break it off!