So yeah, I have another question, this one about a different guy (girls can like more than one guy at a time, especially when we're single).
So this guy it's a bit more complicated with. First college party I ever went to was with him. I had never drank before, but he convinced me to try it. I didn't have much, just enough to get a little more relaxed and feel slightly lightheaded.
He drank a lot more. Got really friendly with me. He would put his arm around me, push the strap that kept constantly falling of my shoulder back into place, and rest his forehead against mine when we were talking so we could hear each other.
So we live on the same floor, hence the question of floorcest. We went back at the end of the night, and since we were drunk, decided to spend the night together. We went to my room since my roommate was gone for the weekend. We didn't do anything, just cuddled (spooned I guess) all night. He didn't try to kiss me or take advantage of me and we were both fully clothed.
The next day we went to breakfast and spent the day together. Things were really good.
We spent a lot of time together the next couple days. We would cuddle a bit, he would come and hang out in my room and study. He was open with me, didn't have a problem touching me.
Then he started to get a little distant and awkward. I sensed what was coming, so I asked him about that night, he apologized saying it was just cause he was drunk (he wasn't that drunk though). I told him it was totally fine (and it was), but then I lied and said I wasn't looking for a relationship anyway.
We are still friends, though I sense he still feels awkward about things sometimes, but not all the time. I have no problem talking to him, and he seems the same. His overall demeanor is what seems awkward, but he might be like that with everyone. But we can hold a conversation.
But, I still have a huge crush on him. I mean, how could I not! No guy had ever shown interest in me like that until him, and no one had ever cuddled with me, that's for sure!
So, I still remain friends, but its almost painful since I have feelings for him.
Should I let things remain as they are and stay friends, or should I keep hoping since he had seemed to like me back at first, only when other people started noticing us did he get awkward. Should I wait until next year when we don't live on the same floor anymore to make a move or start flirting?
What should I do?
So this guy it's a bit more complicated with. First college party I ever went to was with him. I had never drank before, but he convinced me to try it. I didn't have much, just enough to get a little more relaxed and feel slightly lightheaded.
He drank a lot more. Got really friendly with me. He would put his arm around me, push the strap that kept constantly falling of my shoulder back into place, and rest his forehead against mine when we were talking so we could hear each other.
So we live on the same floor, hence the question of floorcest. We went back at the end of the night, and since we were drunk, decided to spend the night together. We went to my room since my roommate was gone for the weekend. We didn't do anything, just cuddled (spooned I guess) all night. He didn't try to kiss me or take advantage of me and we were both fully clothed.
The next day we went to breakfast and spent the day together. Things were really good.
We spent a lot of time together the next couple days. We would cuddle a bit, he would come and hang out in my room and study. He was open with me, didn't have a problem touching me.
Then he started to get a little distant and awkward. I sensed what was coming, so I asked him about that night, he apologized saying it was just cause he was drunk (he wasn't that drunk though). I told him it was totally fine (and it was), but then I lied and said I wasn't looking for a relationship anyway.
We are still friends, though I sense he still feels awkward about things sometimes, but not all the time. I have no problem talking to him, and he seems the same. His overall demeanor is what seems awkward, but he might be like that with everyone. But we can hold a conversation.
But, I still have a huge crush on him. I mean, how could I not! No guy had ever shown interest in me like that until him, and no one had ever cuddled with me, that's for sure!
So, I still remain friends, but its almost painful since I have feelings for him.
Should I let things remain as they are and stay friends, or should I keep hoping since he had seemed to like me back at first, only when other people started noticing us did he get awkward. Should I wait until next year when we don't live on the same floor anymore to make a move or start flirting?
What should I do?
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+1 y
Also, I only lied and said I didn't want a relationship because 1). I didn't want him to feel bad, 2). He seemed like a great guy and I wanted to get to know him as a freind too (which was a good choice, because he is a great guy and I enjoying being his freind, I would just like to be more), and 3). I didn't want to look bad. Girls gotta safe face too ya know.
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here's an idea
say what you mean
mean what you say
then this shit doesn't have to be corrected because no mistakes were made