Again I mean it depends on what you mean by "get over" I spent 6 years almost everyday with her. In the end she broke up with me and I hated her for it. Afterwards I realized who she really was and how she really treated me. I don't see her as the same person anymore but, more like a person that changed over time. I will always miss that girl I first met. As for the girl at the end well. . . My life is now much better without her.
No you never get over them. If you sealed your soul and body with them. They are your first love and you are married, and so is all others you deal this with but they are afterwards. A part of you always lives in them and a part of them in you. The pain and suffering and all will pass but not that what you shared. In a perfect world all first loves will be together for ever and never separate. Unfortunately we have false views on what sex, marriage and love is and mess around with it not accepting the consequences but thinking it something to play with. I agree in total with "hunterboyz".
Get over? You'd have to define what you mean by "get over". I have to say no. As bad as you want to be over them, its almost impossible to get over that person. You keep telling yourself that you don't love them, but you know its a lie. Thats all apart of you trying to convince yourself so you can move on. Deep down though, you miss that person like crazy, but you know it probably wouldn't work now.
The fact you're interest are in this Q&A should let you know that you never get over them.
This is a dedication to all of the 1st loves in world...We will always have a special part in our hearts for you.
I agree with utopus and Genesis5. As time passes you meet others, but there's always a special place for that one and a feeling that has faded but never lost its essence.
The song "Two Out Of Three Ain't Bad" by Meatloaf is one of the saddest and truest songs. You really have to pay attention to the feeling in the song and the lyrics or you won't understand, but that song sums up getting over your first love better than anyone else could explain.
Hey, I can so tell that tale. NO WAY! I can never see myself getting over my first love. But the difference is that I will always love him. But I won't have the same love for him. I see him so different now but I would still do anything for him. Why? He was my first love. Don't get over him hun. You'll go nuts trying to make yourself forget him or her. Just move on and know that you will never forget that One.
Depends, like my first "love" was not as strong as the next love of my life, It took me a little under a year to get over my first love... and it's been over a year and I'm still trying to get over my second love... I guess you could argue that my first love wasn't love like my second was, but I believe there are different kinds of love and you will always care about the person but eventually you will fall out of love with that person.
No they don't, my first love was in high school. We ended up parting ways after high school. I dated guys but could never keep a relationship going because I always thought about him. I went on and got married and had a child but for some reason I could not give my whole heart to my husband. We ended. 3 yrs later I ran into my high school sweetheart and it was like we never left each other. Now we are getting married in June. If they do you wrong, you will always have a spot in your heart for them but you will find somebody who will come sweep you off your feet and make you forget about them. But all honesty they will always have a part of you. I hope that answers your question.
Yeah..You move on, but I don't think you ever fully get over them. I mean it's your 1st love, first time you ever really experienced love with the opposite sex, so it'll forever be a milestone in your life.
It all depends on the person. I know some people who are stupid enough to do rebound romances not long after breaking up with their first love. I know a girl that did and because of it she ended up marrying and divorcing the dude as well as having his two kids.
I don't know that, for me, it's a 'get over'. I definitely got past the feelings. But the fear of a significant other's family, the gut feeling that says a guy's attention is wandering? That stuff I never lost.
