What would a women think if I guy was 24, going on 25, and he'd never been kissed? In fact he's never been on his first real date.
This is mostly just bad luck. He's extremely shy and hasn't really found anyone to date His attempts have come up leaving him more hurt than anything else. He's had to "relationships" but online only. The first when he was 14 but it ended with her calling it off (right on or around the 6 month anniversary) claiming it was the distance. (Later he comes to find out it was so she could get back together with her pyscho ex (her words not his) who brought a knife to school. Weirdly enough he's still friends with her even today. His second was seven years later with a woman who turned out to be a pyscho herself. She completely lied to him about everything. Who she was, how old, having children, being married, her personal life, etc. He didn't even know her real name.
Now he's low on self esteem, self confidence, and self worth. But he hasn't given up and still hopes to find someone to be with, someone to make happy, and someone who makes him happy.
Wow, I know someone in the same boat. He's a friend of my friends boyfriend. I was honestly happy to hear that about him. Made be feel less up to date on what everyone else was doing. I'm 20 and never kissed anyone. Very nervous. So nervous that a VERY cute boy tried to kiss me and I pulled away. I didn't want to feel stupid. All my friends tell my not to worry that it will come naturaly. Now I'm just waiting for him to try again.
So, I'd be very happy to meet a guy like this. He shouldn't feel bad or a shamed.
Yea same here I'm 20 years old and I have never been kissed either. And to be honest wit you I rather have a less experienced guy then a guy who is too experienced for me. - 4 months ago
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Well, never been kissed and 24 almost 25 is unusual to hear, but not weird. i believe that, that guy is going to have to re-gain his self esteem back and just keep trying and get out there in the real world. it's kind of refreshing to hear that this guy is almost 25 and never been kissed. if i'm not making any sense sorry. lol i'm trying.
Honestly, it might be kind of a relief to have a guy that hasn't "been around the block" with a whole bunch of girls. If a woman is understanding, patient and kind and you explain your situation to her then I don't see anything wrong with working on a relationship with a guy like that. I think too many times shy guys (and inexperienced guys) get written off because people think that they are "strange" or something. The fact that you have had interaction with two girls is a good thing. Most women want to know that you've at least attempted a relationship. If possible, could you answer my shy guy question (the most recent post). I'm almost ready to give up on this guy! LOL. Good luck in your dating endeavors and let me know if you have any more questions. :)
Oh! Sounds like he really did have a bad luck! But it's ok, I mean he can make it ok, He should gain confidence, Experiencing relationships with the wrong people is nothing to be ashamed of. He should forget about being shy, Confidence is the key to everything. I'm saying this because I myself gained so many things I my life just with confidence:p I would never think anything bad or unlikely about such a guy GOOD LUCK
Fella, confident is from inside out. Not outside in. God give every man a gift, what you have might not be my strongest. What I had has nothing to do with you.
I know there is vixen who love to date guys like you. (they find it sexy, and love to be in control)
There is a book call The game, take a look it might spark you up.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
I nice dinner date at a restaurant, be it steakhouse, Japanese hibachi or Italian. I would wear business casuals but nothing over the top and all cleaned up. We would talk about anything but I would do most of the listening to show I am focused on her. Afterwards, a nice drive around town for a few or a walk in the park if the weather is good. To end the date, I will never try to steal a kiss.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
A woman will know that I am a very honest and straightforward guy with a tremendous sense of humor. She will know that I am one of those nice guys that women have been looking for all this time yet have been here all along.
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