Why can't I get a boyfriend?

Well.......You never really "get" a boyfriend. These things tend to happen when you're least looking. If your obsessed with finding a boyfriend you will scare every eligible guy away.

Just be you, go with the flow, and when a good guy comes around, you will find your boyfriend. There is nothing worse for most guys than an over-anxious girl.

Hey girl!! Wish I could find someone like yourself!! I'm that way myself too. 23 years old and still a virgin... My friends all have one night stands and it seems like they're getting girls left right and centre?!! I'm not sure if the girls nowadays like to sleep around or what.
But I for one am waiting for "the one".... although its getting harder every day...
I dunno girl, I think that the harder we look, the harder it is for us to find that someone special... seriously...
For example, I've been working on the rigs since I was 17 until just a year ago, as soon as I got back I was looking soooo hard for a girl, but it just didn't seem to come, until one day I didn't care anymore... I went to take out at a restaurant, wasn't expecting to meet anybody, I didn't even shower, my hair was all over the place, my shirt was half ripped, and had huge baggy pants, as well my face was like chapped up. But yet that was the time I met the girl working there, we started to talk and hit it off great and went out!! Although it only lasted a few months, I'm just proving my point...
It comes when you least expect it!!
Try taking some classes you enjoy at night and stop looking soo hard... be outgoing... and its when you least expect it, it comes... It's ironic how things work sometimes...

Things like past experiences, have you ever been told why a guy wouldn't date you, or why you are getting shut down. Alot could have to do with where you are meeting guys and who you hang out with... A little chubby is not bad I thought before you said 128 which is not big at all... I need to know what types of things you like to do and where your meeting guys... Is it every guy or a select few that you liked a lot that would make that step... Really just general info...

How you carry yourself or put yourself out there... Because it sounds like you are a good person... With excellent qualities that many men would find appealing...

It depends on a lot of different factors... If you would like to write me privately I would be more than happy to help, but I need more information about different situations...

Well it's hard to say with the amount of information you're telling us. But there's a few things you need to ask yourself. Are you putting yourself in situations where you can meet the kind of guys you want? If you rarely go out then that reduces your chances quite a bit. On the other hand, if you aren't willing to strike up a conversation with someone, they may not even talk to you in the first place. Sometimes you have to put yourself out there too. Whatever happens, just try not to be in too much of a rush to get into a relationship or you may end up unhappy.

Get off the internet and get out there!

I'd guess that you don't have high self-esteem and guys sense a weakness in you that they don't want to deal with. Build a life for yourself, get a hobby, educated yourself, learn new things, get so busy that you don't even notice you don't have a man by your side. Create a life for yourself wherein you don't need a man by your side. Ironically, that's when they usually come along. They see a pretty, strong, smart girl with a lot of good things going on and they want to be a part of it.