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My girlfriend is a slut, can I change her to be with me only? or is it a lost cause?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 18 days ago
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i found this girl,
she has the perfect personality, she's hot as f***, we have so much in common and she's so fun to be with. The only thing wrong with her is that she's a slut. She gets with other guys, and when I found out about it, I broke up with her. I stopped talking to her and then a few weeks later she called me and invited me over and she told me she missed me and all that. I know she's still a slut, I'm not stupid. Obviously in 2 weeks she isn't gonna change. Is there any way I can change her? or is it something I'm gonna find myself wasting effort on?


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Drop her.

Try and change her.

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Anonymous User      When: 18 days ago
You can't turn a ho into a housewife. Why are you wasting time trying to change a ho anyway? If you found her slutty, leave her slutty. She is not going to change. Don't try to be Captain Save a Ho and just leave her.
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Anonymous User      When: 18 days ago
You can't make no hoe into a housewife. AIn't. Gone. Happen.
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hisangel      When: 18 days ago
Well, I think the fact that you call this women a slut is probably a good sign that this isn't going to last. I understand that you are saying she is sexually promiscuous but if you have deep feelings for this women, I would hope you would see her as more than a hot slut. That might just be the pain talking but if I started calling a guy I liked a man slut, I might rethink my real desire for him.

And no you can't change her because she doesn't want to change. You know she sleeps around and if you want to be with her, that is a choice you will have to make. But if you know that that is how she is, you are agreeing to it if you go back to her.
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Jpalms56
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Jpalms56      When: 14 days ago
Bro, From personal experience...Dont try. You can turn a hoe to a housewive. It doesn't work. you will only get hurt
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1FastFC      When: 18 days ago
lost cause
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John83      When: 18 days ago
No, I don't think you can change her and it wouldn't be worth your time to try. You'd be better off finding another girl who has the same things you like in her and isn't a slut.
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armyant      When: 18 days ago
Wasting your time. She's going to keep doing it as long as her looks allow her; girls like her can only settle down after that well dries up, but whether or not you want the baggage at that point is the real puzzler.
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