I have a boyfriend, yet...

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Yet I find myself flirting with another guy. He works at this sports facility and I'm a regular, 4 times a week, and we're always flirting. He helps me with stuff I don't even need help with.

he's asked me to hang out and I am going to.

but is it wrong?

eevee · Accepted Answer

Plainly put. Yea. It is.

If you are flirting with another guy then

thats probably a sign that your not getting something

out of your current relationship.

especially if your going out on a date with this new guy.

I figured out that I like the attention from other guys

i like feeling wanted by other guys

i like the spark that you get from meeting someone new.

but never take it past talking/flirting.

if that's the case with you then I suggest not being in a relationship

until you get it out of your system.

kiem-gg · Accepted Answer

I won't say if it's wrong or right mainly because I think you're asking if it's wrong because you know it is, you're probably just hoping we will say it's not.

I will only ask you one thing. How would you like it if it were your boyfriend asking us this question and not you?

Just-A-Random-Guy · Accepted Answer

Yes, it's wrong.

MaceyRyan · Answer

Its simply not fair to your boyfriend.

Yes, its wrong.

I understand the "wondering" thing, but you need to either be committed to your relationship, or simply not have one until your ready for commitment.

R6LA1 · Answer

You're young (less than 18). Youth is fleeting. Not that you shouldn't honor your commitments (like to your boyfriend) but if you want to hang out with the guy, go for it. Just know where your line is and don't hurt your boyfriend.

*good luck*

ilu----- · Answer

I don't think y'all should be flirting but y'all are just hanging out so go for it. You're young and you deserve to live right? But I also think that if y'all are flirting, that you shouldn't because flirting can lead to other things that you might regret, especially since you have a boyfriend so you have to make the right decision. Chill with another boy you like knowing there might be consequences or just chillin' with your babe.

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