I know every couple is different, but I'm wondering how it works for other couples, especially with a guy that likes to take things super slow. Some guys I"ve dated never say I Love You, while others say it within two weeks. How long before a certain comfort level sets in? I'm thinking more of a fairly new relationship, but am also curious as to the average time before people move in together, talk kids, etc. I guess I'd just like to get an idea of the basic timeline for taking steps within a relationship with someone.
Hmmm. well, I'm in a 1 1/2 year relationship - we've said I love you, we're an established item, we've talked about marriage and kids, but we're waiting until we both graduate college before we start moving in/actually doing anything along those lines (another three years, since I'm insane and decided to double major). We figure it would probably be best for any sort of life we decide to start together.
I've had a guy say "I love you" after 3 dates, and yeah. I thought, "psycho!"
some people take about a month, or maybe 3 or 4 until they understand how the other person acts. All relationships depend on chemistry and how they both think. It took my guy 8 months to admit he luvs me, and me 6 months to realize I love him back.
One of my friends said, " If you can have farting contests with your guy and no one is bothered by it, then that's love right there" I don't know if you can judge the smelly gases by love, but yeah, that's comfort with your guy right there.
well with me and my boyfriend he said I love you to me before we ever started dating and when we did start dating he said it to me and has continued to say it to me everyday. he kissed me for the first time before we ever started dating. so we were at a really good comfort level before we ever began dating.
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What pickup lines do you use to start a conversation with someone you are attracted to?
I don't start a conversation totally for the sake of having one. That comes into play, but there's got to be something interesting to say, something valid to comment on, otherwise it's just ridiculous. The point being, if you ask about something you're really interested in, even if you don't make an associate, you may still find out something interesting, so it is time well spent.
How do they typically respond?
They respond pretty well, because I don't use pickup lines, I just ask about what's around me, around them, what sets them apart and what seems prominent about them, or about the environment we are in together.