Why do girls with boyfriends go out to clubs?

uhhm my boyfriend I think kind of feels the same. I'm 19...and I'm not the clingy type I like to have fun with my friends. I pretty much do what I want when I want as long as I'm not cheating or doing something I shouldn't I don't see the problem. I think if he went out I would feel the same as long as its not a stripclub. I don't know why she would dance with random guys ..because when I go I just go because my friends want me to go and all I do is dance I don't even drink...just to make sure I don't do anything stupid. And if I were to drink I know my friends wouldn't let me do something I shouldn't knowing I have a boyfriend that I'm serious about.

I would have been pissed the freak off if my boyfriend came home talking about how he danced with some girl...i think if your in a relationship its okay to go to nights out with the girls or guys as long as your not doing anything with another guy or girl. For girls we usually just go out to dance with friends if were serious about our relationship...and my boyfriend as well thinks guys will come up and start trying to kiss me and stuff or just dance...What I do is I decline and make it known to any and all men that I don't want that I just came with my friends to dance...if they don't understand then if needed I move to another side or push, hit whatever I would have to do to get him away.

and if you want to go just let her know she can't read minds just because you don't have a fake id doesn't mean you both can't get in just let it be known when she doesn't invite you she wants her space and alone time with her friends.

and tell her to stop dancing with dudes wtf...yah that's all I have to say goodluck hoped it helped.

I have gone to clubs even though I have a boyfriend, but I don't dance with other guys or flirt with them or anything. It's merely a girls night out. If my friends meet a guy, that's great. Actually my boyfriend met me there once with some of his friends :) I don't go often though, maybe once a month.

I think that your concerns are valid, she shouldn't be dancing with other guys at the club. I have seen the kind of dancing that happens, its mainly grinding so I can see your concern :S I would talk to her about it, because you may trust her, but the intentions of the guys are not so innocent. They are most likely looking for a girlfriend or a one night stand, and you have a right to want to protect your relationship. But instead of getting jealous or angry, I would just tell her why you are concerned. There are many reasons that are valid to be concerned with, so I would just talk to her.

Well, I use to love to dance, and when I met my boyfriend at the time, he didn't dance. So, I'd go out with my gf's to a club to dance. Anyone that wanted to dance. I just loved to dance. That's all there was to it. If I wasn't happy with my boyfriend, I'd break up. But I was, I just really loved to dance. He on the other hand didn't like this. So...Ii quit cause he'd get pissed, and I put on like 20 lbs! And I mean, I danced 2 or 3 night a week, for hours. Other that you not having a fake id, does she want you to go? If she really wanted you to go, then you both could go to an 18 and over club. It would make sense.