i had a guy that I don't really know that well who is a server at a restaurant come up behind me in the restaurant and place his hand on my lower back and lean in and ask what he could help me with... just wondering from other girls - would this surprise you? from guys - would you do this to a... Show More
Is touching a girl's lower back not a bit invasive/flirtatious/sexual/forward?
What Guys Said
Most men wouldn't do that to someone they don't know.
What Girls Said
It's forward, he wouldn't do that if he wasn't attracted to you. Now if it was his hand on your shoulder or upper back he probably didn't mean anything by it, but lower back or your waist is more sexual. If you have a problem with it don't let him do that. Remember, it's your body and no one has a right to touch you in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable!