have the time! so my boyfriend
He talks on and on about his ex that he dated for two years on and off. Like he talks about her every day multiple times when I didn't bring her up. and he also talks about his other ex who he didn't want to break up with but had to cause of long distance and he still wears the necklace she gave him and lied to me about who it was from! he also has a best friend that's a girl that is super picky about the girls he dates and creeps on them and all that and he's like yeah she's so cool yeah were just friends and that bothers me because he would always draw this one girl in class and chill with her and I was like she likes you and he would blow it off and be like naw were just friends and then one of her friends told me she likes him! he also talks to his exes still and when they ask him to face time(same thing as skype pretty much) he has to ask me if its OK to face time as if it would be questionable!(I should point out that all of them have made it clear that they not only like him but are in love with him by saying it in those words so yes its a big deal) and he always tells me stories about girls he used to date and how some girl came up to him and asked him to homecoming and he talks about them constantly!(and trust me when I mean a lot I mean when he's telling me stories about his day its interrupted with at least 5 stories about other girls at least). he also tells me that other girls have cool hair and pretty eyes and wear cool clothes or are just cool in general. but he FREAKS OUT that one of my closest friends is a guy and we talk all the time and he says he loves me but ina brotherly way( but girls and girls say they love each other still if they are super close friends and have known each other for years) and not only is he not at all my type and my boyfriend knows that he lives in Maryland and I live in California and I barely see him once a year! and he also freaks out if I say I like another guys eyes or that a guy can draw really well and he freaks out if I hangout with other guys in between my classes! his best friend has been one of my closest friends since before I knew my boyfriend and they have been best friends since kindergarten and he doesn't even trust me to hangout with him alone! also his trust issues wouldn't be because I'm a slut or have a slutty reputation I am a good girl and have never cheated or hooked up with anyone unless I was dating them!
I don't get why he doesn't trust me but its totally normal for him to flirt with other girls and all that! he's so weird he's getting us promise rings and is super mushy gushy lovey dovey but then is super bad at trusting me! I don't know what his problem is or what to do! any advice? :)
He talks on and on about his ex that he dated for two years on and off. Like he talks about her every day multiple times when I didn't bring her up. and he also talks about his other ex who he didn't want to break up with but had to cause of long distance and he still wears the necklace she gave him and lied to me about who it was from! he also has a best friend that's a girl that is super picky about the girls he dates and creeps on them and all that and he's like yeah she's so cool yeah were just friends and that bothers me because he would always draw this one girl in class and chill with her and I was like she likes you and he would blow it off and be like naw were just friends and then one of her friends told me she likes him! he also talks to his exes still and when they ask him to face time(same thing as skype pretty much) he has to ask me if its OK to face time as if it would be questionable!(I should point out that all of them have made it clear that they not only like him but are in love with him by saying it in those words so yes its a big deal) and he always tells me stories about girls he used to date and how some girl came up to him and asked him to homecoming and he talks about them constantly!(and trust me when I mean a lot I mean when he's telling me stories about his day its interrupted with at least 5 stories about other girls at least). he also tells me that other girls have cool hair and pretty eyes and wear cool clothes or are just cool in general. but he FREAKS OUT that one of my closest friends is a guy and we talk all the time and he says he loves me but ina brotherly way( but girls and girls say they love each other still if they are super close friends and have known each other for years) and not only is he not at all my type and my boyfriend knows that he lives in Maryland and I live in California and I barely see him once a year! and he also freaks out if I say I like another guys eyes or that a guy can draw really well and he freaks out if I hangout with other guys in between my classes! his best friend has been one of my closest friends since before I knew my boyfriend and they have been best friends since kindergarten and he doesn't even trust me to hangout with him alone! also his trust issues wouldn't be because I'm a slut or have a slutty reputation I am a good girl and have never cheated or hooked up with anyone unless I was dating them!
I don't get why he doesn't trust me but its totally normal for him to flirt with other girls and all that! he's so weird he's getting us promise rings and is super mushy gushy lovey dovey but then is super bad at trusting me! I don't know what his problem is or what to do! any advice? :)
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