So I tend to meet a lot of girls online; in fact my last ex I met online and dated for 7 months (and yes we met face to face). And I do run into those girls who I chat with for a while before I actually see their face. Some have been very cute and attractive and others....not so much. Thing is with some of the ones I don't find attractive they really do seem to understand how it works. I've been called shallow, a user, a player, and many other things. I can understand being upset, but I find it stupid to go from a nice person to a bitch in 1.5 seconds. And yes I know guys can do this too, but I can only speak from my experience which only consist of females. So that is why I've made this take. LET'S BEGIN!!!
Personality is only half of it
Congrats! You've caught my attention. Clearly there is something about you that I've found interesting enough that I actually wanted to talk and learn more. That's great, but is only the first step. I don't want some empty headed walking bag of flesh with a nice ass and perky breast. Admittly those are nice features, but mean nothing if there's nothing worth my time in her mind. So if you prove to be someone who I can have a nice conversation with that's great, but doesn't mean we're automatically together. I like for my girl to be attractive and have a mind. So sorry if you feel your time was wasted, but I won't date someone who I'm not physically attracted to.
Just like personality looks are only half the battle
Wow, I've found myself attracted to you physically. Great job, but the statement about personality stands true for looks as well. You looks as sexy as you want, but I'm not interested in we can't have a conversation. And it does have to be a complex one at that. Just us talking about what we want out of the would thoughts on TV shows, favorite food, animals.....just something to let me know you aren't a hollow husk.
I actually have a lot more to say, but I'm too lazy to keep talking. XD I think everyone gets what I'm saying though. So if you agree then thanks, if not then I don't really care. It's my life I have to live it who I feel it's best.