Why Indian girls play hard to get?

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I see a very pretty Indian girl on the streets and ask for her number, n get slapped on my face, n get told to go away. My friends tell me they are playing hard to get. I agreed with them. The girls are to much of a challenge. BUt are well worth it. :-) I will do m best to continue pursuing them until one says yes. Shall I throw in some flowers, or chocolutes?

Unnatti · Accepted Answer

If you are an Indian, I'm guessing you're well aware of how things are in India.
It is not like the West where it is normal to talk to girls randomly and hit on them.
And you know exactly why, because Indian men are usually disrespectful towards women, groping them and leeching at them in public places.

Asking this question on a website where people don't know the situation in your country is stupid, because for people answering over here this is normal.
Now firstly, she wasn't playing hard to get. She's just not interested.

If you do want to approach a girl, indirect means will be better. Message her on Facebook or ask a friend of yours to talk to her about you. That's what works.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If a girl slaps you, I doubt she's playing hard to get. Sounds like you did something to offend her or turn her off.

Not sure what you're doing when you approach, but try approaching girls in a more "gentleman" like way.

I'm an Indian girl and I'm pretty conservative. I would like for a guy to get to know me and then ask me out rather than just off the bat. Then I'll know he actually likes me for me.

And flowers/chocolates can't hurt!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Lol u are under 18! With car and money! Wow! Secondly that pick up like is bloody cheap! Hot and spicy like pokora sound like u want to eat her! Try respect next time! I'm sure that's going to work. And slapped u around the face! Well ain't that was expected with that kind of cheap pick up line! Dude just be normal and be urself!

man32 · Accepted Answer

buddy you are so young and sounds desperate. Indian girls dont play hard to get. they are hard to get. they are fine tuned by parents to be hard to get and react accordingly... if u pursue more with a girl of ur age bracket, you only get frustrated and embarrased. change your approach method... just speak with her nicely in a friendly manner then get their number so u can discuss study matters etc :) :):) be subtle in your approach and then once u made sure you are safe they will open up...

Jordahn · Accepted Answer

You have money, our your parents have money? Girls only play hard to get when they like the guy and want to be a challenge. A girl slapping a guy across the face isn't playing hard to get.

Are you sure all you did was ask for her number? Because I don't get why she would slap you if that's all that you said.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes indian girls are hard to get..but not all..there are many young ( you must try 2nd gen indians) girls who are exclusively dating outside their race.
Indian women are the women with values. Unlike white girls who are ready to get laid easily at times, indian girls are exactly opposite. They respect their physical dignity and do not want to get touched just bg any one until they make sure the guy has emotions for her.
Also the other reason is parents pressure to marry with in own race ( i know that's pathetic ) but not all indian family is like that.
But try on Americanized indian girls. They ate not conservative and are friendly just like white women.

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

if you got slapped across your face, you probably did more than just innocently ask for her number. you're probably harassing these women and thats why they keep lashing out on you. they're not playing hard to get, they just dont like you. you have to switch up your approach

sherlocked · Answer

You see a girl on the streets and you ask her for her number randomly? And you wonder why she slapped you?

"I might add, I am very gud looking, have car, and money"
"One pik up line was telling her she was hot and spicy like a pakora."

Uh...Yeah. I don't blame her. Trust me she was not "playing hard to get".

That slap will remind you not to be cheap and disgusting.

bleedingquadrophenic · Answer

"I may have used a pik up line or to. One pik up line was telling her she was hot and spicy like a pakora."

Well gee, I for the life of me cannot figure out how that didn't work out for you. When I call a girl a pakora, she's all like "yeah baby you're my vada pav"

Anonymous · Answer

No amount of flowers or chocolates are going to save you from whatever got you slapped in the face. It baffles me that your brain isn't firing enough to at least clue you in on the fact that slap = very bad, and you simply think "Oh, I need to try harder next time".

The entire site is now dumber for having read this question. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul.

WoIIie · Answer

It's totally not okay to get slapped in the face where I'm from... Yet, you handled it so nonchalantley. Maybe put some pants on next time?

Anonymous · Answer

the door of their pussy gets shut n it's all dry when they see any Indian guy. but when they see a foreigner the door of their pussy opens up n their yoni gets wet with the holy water from deep inside. So forget about Indian girls n just try to fuck as much white girls as possible.

timewarper · Answer

Those pre-requisites  doesn't automatically qualify you to get a beautiful girl.

Anonymous · Answer

It's a prat of eastern culture. Girls are not suppose to appear easy, and a man must work for it.

kangaru2 · Answer

did you do anything that result in the above treatment? how was your tone/behaviour towards her?

Anonymous · Answer

how do you approach them? Like the idiots who cause problems like the rest of them? Im born and raised in NYC, (family from Goa) you act NORMAL... nothing like in the movies you see. You treat them with respect. I dont like indian women personally..

NoblesseOblige · Answer

Any girl who is hard to get isn't worth it.  She's hard to get because she doesn't like you lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe it's your approach that's making them turn you down

binny91 · Answer

your under 18 use your parents money silver spoon kid?

therandomcheeseguy · Answer

You are an idiot if you think going up to ask a random girls who don't know you will give you their numbers is going to work.

Keyspirits · Answer

Oh my...a slap across the face sending u flying miles away from home xD

nickstaa · Answer

Stop looking and acting like a bitch that might increase your chances.

iamthestig · Answer

indian girls are batshit crazy anyway source: lived in india

Anonymous · Answer

Just give them your money :)

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