If a girl doesn't offer to during a date, is that a red flag?

[Anonymous]

If a girl doesn't offer to during a date, is that a red flag

Yes it is a red flag

No it is not a red flag

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Offer to pay

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[Anonymous]

If she doesn't offer, then she expects you to always pay for everything. If she offers, but makes no move to actually pull money out and pay then she's just trying to mask her intentions so that you don't think she's a gold digger. If she actually happy to split it, lucky you. If she's looking for the exit pays her half forcefully, she wants you to think she owes you nothing.

[rthomas43]

Are you really so lazy that you copy and pasted your title instead of retyping it into the details box? Lol

Not necessarily a red flag. She's either just old fashioned...or a spoiler bitch lol

[rthomas43]

Spoiled*

[rthomas43]

Thanks for MH :)

[Betwyn]

If a guys asks me out on a first date...

and I offer to pay..

That is the red flag of, let me out of here, I never want to see you again.

I believe whoever asks, should pay on first date. After that, I'm good with split or switch.

[Asker]

I mean offering to pay just out of politeness even though the guy will still be the one to pay

[Betwyn]

For me, not on a first date.. and when I've asked a guy out, I don't want him to offer..

[teasegirl]

Offer what? Money? Punch? Puppies? Vagina? Caca? Ride...

[Asker]

Pay oops

[teasegirl]

If she doesn't offer to pay she is after your money. Unless you made it clear dinner is on you.

[Asker]

Even if you are the one who initiated the date?

[Asker]

I believe that offering is the polite and the right thing to do even if the guy ends up paying

[teasegirl]

If I was the one that asked him out it would be assumed that I'm the one paying.

[Drooogie4]

Caca...:,)

[teasegirl]

Lol you like that

[Anonymous]

No she just expect you to pay, it's not red flag at all..

[knotme]

Offer what?

[Asker]

pay i forgot to put pay in

[knotme]

Offer to pay?

[Asker]

yes offer to pay

[knotme]

no that's your job, to pick up at least the first date

[knotme]

If she asked you out, she should pay

[womenhateme]

Its no ones job who pays first. What's wrong with splitting the bill?

[knotme]

@womenhate that's your opinion and i gave him mine

[rthomas43]

There's clearly a reason women hate you.

[Asker]

By splitting the bill do you mean each person pays for themself? That goes against etiquette. I would be like saying "I want to date you but you have to pay for yourself"

[knotme]

@asker, yes that is what he means. I already gave you my reply