the guy i've been talking to told me that i'm hard to read and that i'm like a closed book.
i think this is because i'm scared to open up my feelings because i dont want to be judged or scare him away and i've never been fully open with anyone...
anyway what does this mean to you and what can i do to be easier to read i guess or more open?
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This is a rhetorical question. You've basically answered your own question. If are somewhat guarded about opening up and letting out your feelings then OF COURSE the guy is going to say that you're a hard read because he can't seem to get you to open up. To help you out, try asking questions that are open ended and not a yes and no. Meaning try phrasing questions where they will almost HAVE to illicit a well thought out answer to what your question was, this will greatly move the conversations along a lot longer and hopefully smoother where you two can finally find that connection.0
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