Sounds like he is playing games (I asume you have slept together). As soon as you confessed you actually had feelings for him, it seems like he backed out.
And him just contacting you when his off work, not wanting to make plans with you a head in time, sounds like he might be using you when his feeling lonely.
I've been there, met a guy online, dated him for 5 months, just to figure out he just enjoyed being around me when he needed sex. I also discovered he had done the samething to a lot of other women he met online. I quickly cut all contact with him.
Dont contact him, wait a see if he contacts you and if you notice it is the same style his used before, than I would cut him loose, you deserve to be with someone who truly wants you!
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You didn't mention when he stayed over if you guys had sex. If you did have sex, he got what he wanted from you. If a man doesn't make plans in advance with you, that means he's not into you. If a guy was REALLY into you, he would go out of his way to make sure that you're available AHEAD of time. It doesn't matter that he travels a lot, etc, he would go OUT OF HIS WAY to call/text you, just so you won't forget about him. It also doesn't matter what he mentioned on his on-line profile. If he acts differently from what he declares on his profile, it means that he's not looking for a relationship with YOU.
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