I just went on a first date with a guy I met on Tinder. We watched movies at my house and went for a walk outside. We chatted every day for about a week before the date and he seemed very sweet and romantic, but once we met in person, he didn't talk or smile much. We did kiss and cuddle a ton though and he talked a bit more as the date progressed and smiled a lot toward the end, and the date lasted over five hours. He also texted me afterward saying he hoped I had an amazing time.
What's confusing though, is I can't tell if he liked me and is shy or if he just wanted a girl to cuddle and make out with. He seemed outgoing when we messaged before the date, so his quietness during the date made me wonder if he was bored. I figure if he wasn't interested though, he wouldn't have stuck around for over five hours and texted me afterward but I also think he would've talked and smiled a lot more.
If a guy is shy and doesn't talk or smile much during a date, is that a bad sign? Also, this guy is a handsome 19-year-old soccer player, so I believe he has no reason to be shy around girls. I'm a 23-year-old model and college graduate, but I'm very friendly and I get along with nearly everyone.
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Oh, I've seen people who were socialites online, then were clammed up and awkward in real life. Just because you think someone "has no reason to be shy around girls" doesn't mean that automatically makes him so. Looks are far from everything when interacting with people.0