I just went on a first date with a guy I met on Tinder. We watched movies at my house and went for a walk outside. We chatted every day for about a week before the date and he seemed very sweet and romantic, but once we met in person, he didn't talk or smile much. We did kiss and cuddle a ton though and he talked a bit more as the date progressed and smiled a lot toward the end, and the date lasted over five hours. He also texted me afterward saying he hoped I had an amazing time.
What's confusing though, is I can't tell if he liked me and is shy or if he just wanted a girl to cuddle and make out with. He seemed outgoing when we messaged before the date, so his quietness during the date made me wonder if he was bored. I figure if he wasn't interested though, he wouldn't have stuck around for over five hours and texted me afterward but I also think he would've talked and smiled a lot more.
If a guy is shy and doesn't talk or smile much during a date, is that a bad sign? Also, this guy is a handsome 19-year-old soccer player, so I believe he has no reason to be shy around girls. I'm a 23-year-old model and college graduate, but I'm very friendly and I get along with nearly everyone.
What's confusing though, is I can't tell if he liked me and is shy or if he just wanted a girl to cuddle and make out with. He seemed outgoing when we messaged before the date, so his quietness during the date made me wonder if he was bored. I figure if he wasn't interested though, he wouldn't have stuck around for over five hours and texted me afterward but I also think he would've talked and smiled a lot more.
If a guy is shy and doesn't talk or smile much during a date, is that a bad sign? Also, this guy is a handsome 19-year-old soccer player, so I believe he has no reason to be shy around girls. I'm a 23-year-old model and college graduate, but I'm very friendly and I get along with nearly everyone.
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