She said just friends, but acts the opposite way.

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This is a very complicated situation. I went out with a girl who I liked and was dead-on sure that she liked me back. She talked to her friends about me, she glances at me all the time, she comes over to my dormitory ALOT. When we went out, she somehow had my favorite band's albums on her iPod, though she listens to punk and hip hop, while I listen to metal and blues. She asked me if she could put on something I'd like, and I said sure, and she surprised me with my favorite band.

The first date, we had great chemistry.. I usually pick up signs pretty quickly and know when a girl's not interested. So, after our first date, Valentine's day came up and I got her flowers. I asked her if she had any plans that day, she was busy. Turned out she was watching horror flicks with her roomie. Nonetheless, she hugged me and blushed, told me she never got flowers before. Yet then she comes into my room and asks me about my room mate! Looks at his books and tells me he's got a good selection!

I took that as she didn't like me, but to give her a second chance (she's a very shy girl and I've met shy girls who turned around and quit playing games after a while), I waited another week, asked her out again. She got back to me later during the day, rejecting me. Saying "sounds too much like a date, sorry, you're a cool guy, I'd love to be your friend". Pretty much then I assumed she was done with me and I shouldn't even talk to her again. Right?

Couple weeks later I'm at a party and she comes in the building. Says hi to no one, rushes and pokes me from behind. Smiles and says hi. I'm fed up with this bs and I'm a practical and straight-up honest guy. I basically just say "oh hey" and walk away. Throughout the whole night I get these angry glances from her which heighten when I went off and danced with a couple other girls. When she saw me and another girl dancing pretty sexually, she gave me this very angry look, walked into a corner and sat down texting. I swung by later on to see what's up. She said she's not mad.

Later I asked her to my room and tried to see if we can converse. I asked her for closure on why she didn't want to date. She ran through a laundry list- from "didn't feel anything" to "I have ridiculously high standards" etc, but she ended it with "but I really like being single". Yet what does she do after that? As I lead her out of my room, she tells me "oh by the way, I'm gonna be down the hall all night".

Let me give some extra background on this girl. We were acquantances from high school. She was a goth/punk complete with the make up and piercings then. College came around and she turned around. She still has some personality quirks- she's scared of embarrassment, to the point where she wouldn't even let me confront the coffee guy for messing up her order. She puts a great deal on image and is shy, and she can't converse properly cause she's afraid of sounding dumb. WTF is her problem? I would usually f- off but this is confusing and hurts!
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BY the way, ever since I talked to her in my room and didn't go down the hall to visit her, when I ask her to hang out, she says she can't. I'm thinking about asking her to hang again, and if she says no, I'll tell her honestly that I'm done trying.
She said just friends, but acts the opposite way.
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