We feel excluded, maybe even Ostracised. This experience might be destabilizing and painful for men.
Being ignored could mean lack of interest. It could mean that she is overwhelmed with problems. It could mean there is a hidden conflict which is not spoken out.
You won't like to hear it. But the believe, ignoring precisely indicates "I'm not interested in you", thats wishful thinking. Ignoring 'is' ambivalent, it could mean anything.
Generally, I tend to distrust people (male or female), who use too lightly this kind of communication to get their way. As it requires some detachment to the pain, it could inflict to others.
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We feel like banging the shit out of you. Seriously how much time does it take to leave a simple reply and state your situation.
By not answering my texts just prove how rude and disrespectful he is or she is, dont have the interest, nor the courtesy to reply at least with "am busy" "cant talk right now" etc etc. Dealing with this type of people gets annoying. Playing mind games always without caring how people feel about it. I hate it!
Am totally agree with Dawsonwc some girls act like that because they been through a lot with jerks and their experiences have left them very dissapointed.
I understand why you think that it's rude, and to some extent it is. However, I would also keep in mind that they are indicating that they are not interested in you. My recommendation: if they're interested they'll reply, if they don't reply, move on.
I mean yeah I'm busy from time to time, but usually if I don't get back to you within a day then that would mean I just don't want to talk to you.
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I just leave and when we see each other in person again I act friendly. Girls are jerks sometimes but they aren't bad people. After you've seen some of the crap they put up with from ignorant boys though, I don't blame them for being this way. Generally speaking if I like the girl I try and acknowledge that I noticed she didn't respond but also try and show that it's okay. Like okay I'll take that as a no but if you change your mind just ask and I'll try. Then I quit bothering her. No groveling no pursuing no pressuring just a simple acceptance of the circumstances and invitation for her to reply. If she wants to she'll comeback. Usually girls respond to that text. I always remind myself it's not me it's all the guys before me.
I'd rather them ignore a text if they weren't interested instead of responding to a text days later when I don't know what the text was even about. That gets to me more. Sure it sucks if a girl is not interested, but seriously, I think the whole hitting me up in the middle of the night because they're bored thing and "just wanna talk" is bullshit.
I find it irritating.. perhaps rude too and feels kinda like.. she has no interest in me. Now i know everything doesn't revolve around me aswell. But at least show some decency to respond. I dont care how short the message is. Mine are mostly short too.
I would NEVER text message a woman unless it was to either confirm plans ("we're meeting at 7 tonight, right?") or to ask simple "yes/no" questions ("Are you working today?").
They get the messages, and it's easy to be dismissive and ignore them.well when that happens to me im just like...
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and then I get over it and move on lol.I hate it more than the worst level of hell... It sucks because we are investing our time into having a decent text conversation the all of a sudden it like the girl falls from face of the flat earth people used to believe in. Common courtesy is all I am asking for, I hate texting as it is.
I usually repay the same.
I write -> she ignores first message, i stop replying to her first message to make her see how it feels.
I sometimes even say it directly
"Now that we both have had our kindergarten fun, can we talk seriously?"That shit pisses me off. That's why I don't talk to women anymore. Lol.
Just focus on your own shit, man. You will thank yourself at the end of the day.If a girl ignores texts for a while because it's part of "playing the game" then I have absolutely no interest in pursuing them. If you're at work and busy, then it's understandable.
I agree when a girl ignores my texts I find it ahuge turn off and rude. I to be honest wouldn't take it to hard and just not talk to her if she can't bother to talk to you.
If I ignore someone, it's because I just plain don't want to talk to you. I'm never to busy to text back someone whom I enjoy talking to.
Some people are not responsive , i wouldn't be responsive if they behave in that way.
But I have guys ignoring my text tooIf she ignores my texts I just start to ignore her.
Personally, it bugs the shit out of me. I'm weird though and usually reply within fifteen minutes at most, so for a girl to not reply within four hours or so, kinda makes me wonder why I bother.
I get that sometimes there busy but if they read it and not respond it's kinda gets too my head as to why she didn't text back
I ignore everyone I just can never be bothered to reply. I no it sounds rude , but I forget then can't be bothered
MAN THAT SOME BS i hate it
ignorance means something. either you just pissed her off or she is getting back at you for probably ignoring her.
I find it so annoying, It just pisses me off.
makes me feel like an idiot
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