Why did he say I hurt his feelings when he told me did not care about me?

kindgirl21
Met a guy at local store. He would stare, smile, tease and joke around. Also stop talking to others to talk to me when I arrived. I felt a great connection between us

As time went on I asked for his number. He would text an say he's at work bit busy but still texted back. Also called on his lunchbreak at work.

After week or so asked to meet. We did at like 3am it wasn't booty call he knew I was virgin. We talked about our lives and enjoyed a talk in his car. He asked for a kiss an hugged me when he dropped me home.

He put arm around me an kissed my cheek. Said we will go to dinner soon. He said he moved here for work an that family is in london. I said what about getting to know me any point? He said yeah can come down weekends

So days after we keep in touch. Two weeks goes by I question whats up he says just busy at work. be understanding. After a nearly a month not seeing him I call saying whats up not gonna see me again? He said if I get time why not. He sounded so casual about it saying friends seeing where it goes. If ir wasn't for me callling I wouldn't here from him. An he said not like your my wife or we been together years. He said he wants to know me last week an that somethings there between us. I've asked to see him 5 times sincs our meet up. he's either sleeping off 12hr shifts or working. But I compromised and stayed up to try see him an called at crazy hours. He charmed me with babe, baby, princess madd me think I was special to him. Today I say meet me later at last resort he says no going straight home dont wait up an plus dont think this is gonna workanyway. Knowing he's not done anything to enable it to my blood boiled. I pleaded an he said dont want a girl. So all along he didn't want a gf hencs his behaviour an excuses. an said go away leave me alone. I said so you saying you dont care for me he said thats what im saying bye.

I then sent him texts saying waste of time and big mistake. Also that there's better guys then him
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He then said after I told him how horroble he is. On phone he said dont call again done and dusted now. He said leave me alone before then and was rude it was ok for him to upset me but he didn't likeit when he got it back
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Said everything in anger. Wish I never met u an that he's a loser. Glad I didn't give him time of day when I first met him. As my instinct said fake charming guy.
Why did he say I hurt his feelings when he told me did not care about me?
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