she talks about me all the time to my friend and she told him not to say anything, and when i approached her about it saying i heard she was talking about me she immediate assumed it was my friend who told me and said that he was a liar. i think she's hiding her feelings about casue she likes me, my friend thinks so to, but my friend asked her if she will tell me about the stuff she talks about with him and she said yes eventually but anyways what do girls mean but "doesnt know if she wants a relationship right now or ready"
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As the others have mentioned, it seems like she is unsure for some reason - maybe she's asking your friend about you to get more information about you, without asking you directly (which she may feel may take things to another level that she's not ready for until she has whatever info/opinions she is looking for) Have you known her for long? Maybe she's had a bad history with some ex or whatever and is looking to avoid repeating past pain. I guess it's up to you, and how much you like her - it seems like you'll have to make an effort to sort some things out, or at the very least wait for her to sort out whatever her issues are. You have to decide, is she worth the wait and effort?0