I have low self-esteem so can I get a girlfriend while I have low self-esteem?
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Not necessarily. If it's something like not understanding her thinking your cute or whatever it won't really affect it negatively i don't think unless you're super against every compliment she gives or if you always talk down about yourself. That's going to pose a broken problem. It's a myth that girls like guys with low self esteem and it started with everyone thinking that girls have such a strong maternal instinct that they wan't to help anyone who needs it or take in all the strays or help a bird with a broken wing kind of thing but that's not really true. Maybe at a point it was not not anymore. And if a girl likes you solely for your bad self image then something is wrong and she has a mother complex. Sorry man :/ I have some pretty iffy self esteem and so does my girlfriend but it didn't really play a part in our relationship because we both understood it doesn't have anything to do with the connection we feel. Good luck!!1