I had side chicks before but at the end they became homewreckers and I ended alone, I want a side chick who respects to my relationship with my girlfriend and knows her place.
Is it possible to find this dream mistress?
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First, morally I don't agree with what you're doing. I think it's wrong and many people will keep getting hurt in the process. That being said, I don't judge people for what they do. So, I'm not judging you and anything I say in my answer is just my opinion but not a judgment.
Now, I think you need understand something about human beings. We all have feelings, even the ones that put on a brave face and say "they're just in it for some fun in between the sheets", have feelings. Because of that, nobody is ever going to stay content for long being your "side chick". Eventually, they're going to grow attached to you and start to feel something. Then they're not going to want to be your side girl anymore, but actually your girl. See, I don't know much about sex but what I do know is it can be a form of bonding for girls and then they get emotionally attached to that person. So, imagine if you do that all the time, how attached she's going to become. And, if you add any conversation to that of getting to know each other, then it's going to make that attachment even greater. You know why? Because, we're people who have feelings and you can't expect any girl to spend her whole life being okay with being your something on the side, that just ain't going to happen. I don't even think a man would be okay with that after awhile and look at how they say "all men want is sex". Maybe that's true, but what you want never will replace what a person needs and that's to be appreciated, cared for and loved.
So, my point is. You're always going to run into this problem, there will be no girl (except maybe a stripper or prostitute), who will ever not cause a problem. It just isn't going to happen buddy! So, you need to decide what's more important, having fun for fear of getting hurt again and in the process hurting someone else or finding someone who truly cares for you and makes you happy and vice verse. It really boils down to that.11