So i have been in a LDR with my Boyfriend for almost 9 months, And well recently he has been stressed about things and doesn't want to talk about it, should i give him space if so, would he think i am not supporting him cause i tell him i am. He is 18, And is going to be a marine, Since he has been stressed about stuff he doesn't want to tell me he recentl replies with one word texts, Is that a bad thing? Or is it just cause he needs space to think? He tells me he loves me, so i believe him. I am always there for him and always reply to his texts quickly but could he get bored? What should i do?
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Well, first you won't know until he tells you if he lost interest or not.
Talk with him, ask him to be honest about it, but respect his "secret" if you want.
What I usually do is ask her "everything alright"? (im in a LDR also) But since we were close friends first i know her a lot, know when something is happening and he notice in me too, and we have an exceptional trust in each other (but yes, we still have secrets too) In LDR is specially important to be honest, open and to speak what you feel, since you can't see always body language and gestures.
Ask him when he has time why did he answered with short words, ask him to trust you (and build trust)0