Have you ever dated a guy at least a foot taller than you and well endowed not to mention dominant? I mean like you have to tip toes while he bends to kiss. When you're out he would whisper the filthiest things in your ear to make you blush or put his hand up your dress under the table.
When you have sex he always wants to be in control, he'd pin you down, pull your hair, ravage your neck, breast and the rest of your body like a wild animal. Wants to eat you out all day, everyday. Never wants to let you be on top. Picks you up and make love to you against the wall, on the table, hold you while 69ing while standing up without getting tired. Performing oral on you while he's standing and your legs wrapped around his neck/head while he's holding your ass.
He insists on paying for everything even tho you would like to pay. Buys you gifts, treats you like a princess but fu*ks you like a slut behind closed doors or make love to you gently and passionately. He's serious most of the time and barely laughs. He comes off as a gentleman and very charming to strangers.
Downside: He's extremely jealous, wants to go through your phone, insists on driving you everywhere you need to go, goes to doctors appointments with you whether you want him to come or not. Will pay for your schooling but doesn't want you to work. Can't stand that you have guy friends, times how long you go out for, asks you a million and one questions when you get back and gets really pissed when he can't reach you. Puts hickeys all over your neck and chest so people will know who you 'belong' to and if you don't want him to he gets pissed. Ugh...
Does the pros outweigh the cons? Are these red flags for controlling behavior? Would you stay if he says he will change but still does the same things?
- I'd stay with him.35% (6)10% (2)21% (8)Vote
- I would dump.53% (9)52% (11)53% (20)Vote
- Show me the money!!12% (2)38% (8)26% (10)Vote
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Everything you said describes a total control freak. Nice enough to keep you, but dominating your life so you really CAN'T leave him. I'd go before things go bad.1