Sometimes my mother insists that I should dye my hair a lighter brown or add highlights to it because according to her, that's what many men notice more. Needlessly to say I've already dyed my hair several times in the past (at the time it was because I simply wanted to) but grew tired of it after a while... waste of money every single month.
I'm now with my original mid-dark brown hair and it'll stay that way till the color vanishes with old age (then I'll just dye it with the color I was born). Another issue, she has this concept that whites are the most desirable of all races and that guys would tend to like those women more.
So this is basically a defeat I guess. I'll never be the gorgeous 9/10 in looks white girl with blonde hair. I'm just a 6-7 in looks hispanic woman (I'm not an hourglass but neither chubby, I'm average weight), darker hair and eyes and olive skin.
Most Helpful Guy
I think your mother is totally clueless. Most guys like brunettes actually. The fact that Marilyn Monroe sang that men prefer blondes does not necessarily make it true.
I get that you are black? About men preferring whites. I think it depends where you look. A lot of guys here will tell you they have no problems with black girls. I sure don't. If I find a girl attractive, I find her attractive. The skin color doesn't change anything. I think the attitude has much more to do with it. If you are approachable, it shouldn't be a problem.1
Most Helpful Girl
Not true. Remember it's only true if you allow yourself to believe it. Different people like different things.
Also, you have to ask yourself when looking at the beauty advertisement. Who is the target audience?
If somebody has to work overtime in the MSM to force white blondes down everyones throats its because they aren't better. Because the keyword there is TRY. You don't have to force things that are better they just are. It's brainwashing 101.
And white blondes are a minority. Nothing wrong with them either they're beautiful too.
Keep in mind that brunettes are the majority.1