it's the whole emo/scene kids thing, plus with a lot of actors today, beauty in men is being redefined into a more feminized look.
personally, androgynous guys are attractive, especially facial features, but I still prefer a tall, strong, manly-looking guy. I'm not into the lanky or scrawny guys.
probably because their also skinny.. don't really know. Id like a guy like that, it feels nice when a big strong guy holds you in his big arms.. I'm all for bigger guys. I can't date a guy who weighs less than me, it makes me feel bigger than I am in reality lol
I think mostly cause now a days girls try to wear the pants in the relationship and it's easier to do so with a smaller/skinnier guy. I personally love the old-fashioned style: muscles, a bit taller than me, masculine personality but a gentleman at the same time.
Well I think we like buff guys, but they can think they are so hott and all that, which is unattractive. skinny guys usually have more personality because they aren't always thinking about how hott they are.
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I'm dating a skinny guy who happens to have a black belt, so he is fit. It just depends on what a girl likes. Some like 'em skinny and some like 'em muscular, some even like them fat (bleh).
All girls want a guy with a great personality and who treats them with respect, regardless of their body type.
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i need to go where you live then cus they're still picking all the bigger guys here :[
Aw yeah sh*t I'm sorry I forgot to include those who can't really do anything about it cause its inherited, but have a pretty masculine attitude. As long as you don't act like a girl then you're set.
i've always been a thinner guy and I've gotten some girls in the past, but sometimes I think I'd be more appealing if I was a bit more stockier and thick bodied. besides that I'm very much a man it just bothers me sometimes because I wish I had gotten some good genes :P
I think you're wrong buddy...girls are always going to be attracted to taller guys...not that shorter guys won't get action but girls' 'preference' will be taller...
I'm also talking about thicker more muscular guys over the skinnier guys. But some guys are naturally skinny, but there's a difference between looking skinny and looking like a girl.
Okay, I get it....well, personally I get more action and more interest from girls when I am more muscular than when I'm skinnier....you see, I've been both skinny and muscular in my life!
I like big muscular guys. Football player type. But I do notice that those guys are not as much in with most of the girls, but as you said often those guys are cocky or jerks and only want sex.
The skinnier guys to me are ok. There's not much to hug though. I like the in-between guys, the ones that have a little muscle but aren't too muscular. A lot of muscles scare me cause the guy looks more intimidating. I like the ones that don't look like they could hurt me. My mom was abused by my dad. That's mostly why.
I don't have a preference to big or small guys myself... but I think I may have avoided bigger guys at times because I'd been abused by a couple of men. So while a bigger guy may look like he can wrap his arms around me, he could look like he could really hurt me too. I think it just comes down to personal preferences for most people.
Well if you are a really nice guy, then some girl will like you. I mean who cares about looks honestly, if a girl likes you, it won't matter how you look.
I've gone out with two big/ tall guy & the rest have been about my height. I think it's not true for everyone because I prefer taller guys or slightly muscular guys as opposed to those who are average
Haha. yeah. we tend to be. but not all of us. ur cool though. for being "different"...im tired of seeing all these girls go after the cocky arrogant "bigger" guys...im only 5'8" 120. so my personality has to shine. ya know
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it's the whole emo/scene kids thing, plus with a lot of actors today, beauty in men is being redefined into a more feminized look.
personally, androgynous guys are attractive, especially facial features, but I still prefer a tall, strong, manly-looking guy. I'm not into the lanky or scrawny guys.
probably because their also skinny.. don't really know. Id like a guy like that, it feels nice when a big strong guy holds you in his big arms.. I'm all for bigger guys. I can't date a guy who weighs less than me, it makes me feel bigger than I am in reality lol
I think mostly cause now a days girls try to wear the pants in the relationship and it's easier to do so with a smaller/skinnier guy. I personally love the old-fashioned style: muscles, a bit taller than me, masculine personality but a gentleman at the same time.
I don't like guys that weigh less than me
BUT I do like skinny guys. For height I'd prefer for him to be at least my height or taller but not taller than like 6'3".
I don't know but I get intimidated by very tall or very muscular guys. Like I'm scared he'd get mad and do something very bad to me >__<)
But if he's a big strong guy likes me and he's a marshmallow on the inside and treats me with respect of course I would like him. ^_^
Oh and I am not on birth control yet I still prefer skinny guys.
Many smaller guys can protect a girl just fine, and I know several big guys that aren't the protective manly type.
Well I think we like buff guys, but they can think they are so hott and all that, which is unattractive. skinny guys usually have more personality because they aren't always thinking about how hott they are.
I'm dating a skinny guy who happens to have a black belt, so he is fit. It just depends on what a girl likes. Some like 'em skinny and some like 'em muscular, some even like them fat (bleh).
All girls want a guy with a great personality and who treats them with respect, regardless of their body type.
i need to go where you live then cus they're still picking all the bigger guys here :[
Aw yeah sh*t I'm sorry I forgot to include those who can't really do anything about it cause its inherited, but have a pretty masculine attitude. As long as you don't act like a girl then you're set.
It's ok :P
i've always been a thinner guy and I've gotten some girls in the past, but sometimes I think I'd be more appealing if I was a bit more stockier and thick bodied. besides that I'm very much a man it just bothers me sometimes because I wish I had gotten some good genes :P
Amen, anonymous :)
I think you're wrong buddy...girls are always going to be attracted to taller guys...not that shorter guys won't get action but girls' 'preference' will be taller...
I'm also talking about thicker more muscular guys over the skinnier guys. But some guys are naturally skinny, but there's a difference between looking skinny and looking like a girl.
Okay, I get it....well, personally I get more action and more interest from girls when I am more muscular than when I'm skinnier....you see, I've been both skinny and muscular in my life!
I like big muscular guys. Football player type. But I do notice that those guys are not as much in with most of the girls, but as you said often those guys are cocky or jerks and only want sex.
The skinnier guys to me are ok. There's not much to hug though. I like the in-between guys, the ones that have a little muscle but aren't too muscular. A lot of muscles scare me cause the guy looks more intimidating. I like the ones that don't look like they could hurt me. My mom was abused by my dad. That's mostly why.
I don't have a preference to big or small guys myself... but I think I may have avoided bigger guys at times because I'd been abused by a couple of men. So while a bigger guy may look like he can wrap his arms around me, he could look like he could really hurt me too. I think it just comes down to personal preferences for most people.
it's like asking guys why they like skinner girls.
it depends on the person and their preference.
it's different for all girls.
i prefer a bulky guy, not fat,
but tall and built, my friends like
slender. perhaps you're intimidating to approach?
Well if you are a really nice guy, then some girl will like you. I mean who cares about looks honestly, if a girl likes you, it won't matter how you look.
I've gone out with two big/ tall guy & the rest have been about my height. I think it's not true for everyone because I prefer taller guys or slightly muscular guys as opposed to those who are average
The meat heads our out, and the nerds are in.
LOL, sorry, been wanting to say that in a sentence somewhere, but just never had the chance.
Shit well what if you don't have the meat head attitude?
I like skinny guys, not sure why maybe its because I tend to like nerds and they tend to be scrawny
Haha. yeah. we tend to be. but not all of us. ur cool though. for being "different"...im tired of seeing all these girls go after the cocky arrogant "bigger" guys...im only 5'8" 120. so my personality has to shine. ya know
Yeah I love that about you guys
Girls can look after themselves now, so they don't need to worry as much. Ofcourse, its done nothing for the master race.
I have no idea I like a bigger guy that can handle anything no sweat. I have no idea what a girl would want with a little tiny guy.
I don't know...but it is happening, I mean look at Justin Bieber (gag)
No that kids a chick he/she has no balls.
there you go... girls love guys with great bod but you know big guys can be jerks..