1. It sounds like white people get all the luck in dating and (sometimes) making female friends.
Middle school - Girls ignored me a LOT. Being shy did not help either and was bullied a lot (by Indians AND non Indians)
High School - Bullying stopped and I talked more, but had very few friends due to cliques. Most girls just saw me as an aquaintance.
College - Made a lot of friends, started working out, and even joined a co ed frat. girls smile at me when we cross paths and sometimes even approach me / hug me / invite me to hangouts.
yet, I do not have a girlfriend yet. just a friend (i do make weak attempts to flirt or joke). I mostly laugh at others' jokes.
My parents raised me to focus more on grades than social life, but that put me in a HUGE depression in high school. I got low grades, had few friends, cannot hold conversations for long, and am not too physically strong. I also lack muscle and weigh 160 lbs (I have seen uglier guys get gfs).
Indian girls aren't an option, as my campus is mostly black/latino/white/asian, and the Indian girls that do exist are either Grad students or they Speak Hindi, which I cannot understand.
It is only 4th week of college, but what do I do? i feel the stereotypes are hurting my ability to date. and I do NOT want to settle down. I want experience from dating Chinese/Korean/Japanese/White chicks.
I work out, study, play video games, watch movies, and hang with friends.
Being Indian is a curse, especiialy if you don't fit in with other Indians.
Most Helpful Girl
Looking at it, your luck is increasing as you're finding your place and growing up. Indians have given you guys a bad name though unfortunately. There isn't much you can do, accept be around women regularly and show that you're different and dateable.0
Most Helpful Guy
Seems like quite a few girls are into you, you just need to level up your game a little bit... be bold, be opinionated, work out, be social, and ask a girl out not that tough... also express yourself without being needy and fuck people who don't like you for who you are... you can date any race of girl you like, you don't need to focus on Indian girls only1