He always falls asleep on me, and while I don't really truly believe he has anything to hide, I'm very curious to look through his phone because he never lets me! We're together everyday and I've never seen anything suspicious pop up on his phone, but I also this it's strange that he never lets me freely look at his phone. Help? What should I do! I know it's wrong but he'll never know and it'll just give me some peace of mind.
Should I look through my boyfriends phone?
What Guys Said 12
He probably does not want you to look at his phone because phones are private. If you look through his phone you are breaching his privacy. He may dump you if you do this or your good relationship may turn out to not be a good one. You should trust him enough to not need to do this in the first place. Unless you want to cause problems then leave his phone alone.3
I'd break up with you if you snooped on my phone.5
I'm not sure I can trust someone who disrespects privacy like that.
And whether he looks up porn or not has zero influence on you.1
No, let him have his privacy. This expectation you have that he should let you freely root through his personal stuff whenever you like to make your own insecurities go away is NOT healthy.1
People have a right to their privacy. You wouldn't want him looking through your purse, phone, or internet history because he suspects something, woild you?2
If you know it's wrong then don't do it it's just that simple.0
No means no2
please do not do it... guys want their privacy and this move shows that you don't trust him which can be very harmful in relationship. Plus if you think that he doesn't have anything to hide, then why would you even want to risk your relationship?1
You have no right to do that.0
Just to let you know I along with many guys I know would end the relationship right on the spot if we learned our gf's did that no explaining or excusing their way out of it. And I'm someone who isn't ashamed of anything or has anything to hide.0
It illegal to do so0
What Girls Said 9
Don't do it. If you know it's wrong, just don't. I believe those things always come back to you in one way or the other. People deserve their privacy, and like you said, you don't even have any reasons to have suspicions.1
Nah don't because a lot of the times if you're wanting to find something you usually will, sometimes we trick ourselves into seeing the worst when we don't know the whole story, or just assume.0
Don't go through his phone. Don't ask to go through it. Stop thinking about it. Find something else to do. Don't ever bring it up. Don't offer your phone to him. If I had a boyfriend and he was trying to nose through my stuff like that, it would be a dealbreaker. That is downright creepy. If you suspect he is cheating, he probably is. You don't need to be a detective.1
The fact that your mindset is already thinking that way is not good. You'll start having doubts very soon if you're not careful especially since he hasn't given you a reason to not trust him. If nothing suspicious please don't go down the route of looking through his phone. It's just invasion of privacy and what not.1
If you have no reason to be suspicious then don't. You'll just end up finding something that will upsetyou0
Would you like someone to go through your phone? If it doesn't bother you, for him it is a bother. You know guys... and how will you go through his anyway?0
If your instinct is to look at his phone then go ahead I say. It is not a great sign he doesn't want you to look but it isn't necessarily bad either0