Should I be mad my Boyfriend is talking to girls on Bumble?

[MRose420]

He said he is just looking for friends but he is calling the girls names like beautiful and buttercup...

He showed me the profile I didn't go through his phone... he showed it to me and said look I'm looking for friends... just kind of weird right?

He wants me to move in with him and says I'm the best thing that has ever happened to him but why is he doing this?

Do you think this is acceptable?

[btbc92]

First of all, you shouldn't be moving in with somebody you're not legally married to. That is my opinion. Number 2, I would take all of that as a red flag. It is not appropriate for anybody to be calling anybody those names when their not dating them or known them for such a long time that they ARE friends. As his girlfriend, you can't tell him what to do, but you are entitled to your opinions and he should want to respect it. And just because he shows you want he is doing, he's trying to make you trust him and convince you what he is doing isn't wrong. The reality is how he's approaching this manner is wrong to you and it shouldn't be tolerated or else this relationship is no longer going to be one. And last I checked, Bumble is a dating app.

[Anonymous]

Um no that is no acceptable. Do you think he would be happy if you were on dating apps , looking for "friends". Anyway why is he looking for girls to talk to , even if it's in a friendly way, if he's dating you? He shouldn't need people to talk to, besides people he already knows
You need to have a serious talk with him about this

[MRose420]

I told him it wasn't acceptable and he wouldn't like it if I was doing that... he apologized and deleted the app and said he would never go on it again. Should I forgive him?

[Opinion Owner]

I'd forgive him but he very careful and don't be too trusting of him, just keep your guard up for a little while :)

[MRose420]

Thanks I agree

[Schrodingerscat]

It is not acceptable period.
Bumble is a dating site and *insert meme* one does not simply go on dating sites to make friends.
Things get worse when he's also calling girls there "buttercup" or something. You don't call friends that.
I'd suggest just talk to him about it

[MRose420]

I told him it wasn't acceptable and he wouldn't like it if I was doing that... he apologized and deleted the app and said he would never go on it again. Should I forgive him?

[Schrodingerscat]

Well give him one chance. But be cautious and still keep monitoring his activities once in a while

[MRose420]

Thanks I appreciate your response! I will give him one more chance.

[MovesLikeJagger]

No, not acceptable at all. Nobody goes on Bumble just looking for 'friends'. Don't move in with this guy. He is not being straight with you.

[MRose420]

I told him it wasn't acceptable and he wouldn't like it if I was doing that... he apologized and deleted the app and said he would never go on it again. Should I forgive him?

[MovesLikeJagger]

Move on. You could do so much better you wouldn't believe it. Don't even hesitate. ☺

[MinkWinsor]

no one calls a friend buttercup. he's lying. I'm really sorry

[barryboi]

Absolutely not. There is no way that I would call other girls those cute names if I had a girlfriend. By the way, I am looking for love.

[beebella]

Nobody goes on Bumble to look for "friends."

[barryboi]

I agree completely. By the way beebella, what is your name on Bumble? You are so beautiful.

[beebella]

I'm not on Bumble or any kind of dating apps, but thank you.😊