I'm 22 and unfortunetly it's been made clear to me on separate ocasions (both verbaly and through body language) that I am extremly ugly. And my question to you girls is: would you honestly give such a guy a chance? Just want to know if it's worth trying.
Most Helpful Girl
First of all - do YOU like the way you look? Because often, the way someone acts is what causes them to be perceived as unattractive rather than their actual looks. Confidence shines through & seeing a person who feels truly comfortable in their skin is very attractive. On the other hand, somebody who is maybe of average looks, yet acts as if they are almost ashamed of how they look will have a really hard time looking attractive.
May I ask if anyone has ever told you specifically what they find unattractive about you? This could be helpful, because I really do think that there is no such thing as someone ugly, just different preferences. However, there are things that unfortunately make just about anyone unattractive, and many of those behaviours are difficult to recognize in yourself. If you have anyone in your life you can trust to give you a straight answer, I would advise you to ask them to tell you if there are things about you they find unappealing in looks and behaviour.
If you want feedback on looks alone, I can definitely give you grooming/fashion advice, but I really doubt that you really are as ugly as you think you are. And also - tastes are so different. I can't even count on a hand the number of times my best friends has expressed pure disgust for the looks of my (in my opinion) very handsome ex... but, she was a serial dater and would always talk and talk about the "hot" "extremely good-looking" "gorgeous" "stunning" etc, etc. guy she was currently dating. Whenever I got a chance to meet those guys/see their picture... well, let's just say, they really weren't my type at all. And one of my male best friends is very ugly in my opinion, lovely guy, but not at all attractive... yet... he has a lot of girls who think otherwise :)1
Most Helpful Guy
It's gonna be difficult, but most guys won't give ugly girls a chance... therefore, ugly girls are your best option.1