Im 16, a sophomore in highschool, I have medium length brown hair (I've tried so desperately to grow it longer with no luck), blue eyes, and I'm 5'4 and weigh 121 pounds. I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, and I've never been kissed. I have very low self esteem (my boobs are small, like a cup small :( and I just don't like my body) but I've definitely gotten better over the past year. I've always wanted a boyfriend, but I could never get the guy I liked, and only ugly guys like me, a few guys have told me they liked me over the past year, but none of them were even cute!! I don't think I'm butt ugly, but no cute boys like me so I'm starting to think I'm just downright hideous. Maybe I'm overreacting, please help :(
Most Helpful Guy
I'd say it's a personality thing. You don't seem like a fun person to be around (something guys like to have in a girl. Especially at 15-17).
For me at 16. The last thing I wanted was a girl that was too boring or would slow me down. If she couldn't keep up with me I wasn't going to wait for her. If you want these hot guys, you either need to be the hottest girl in the room and somewhat fun to be around. Or have an awesome personality and be a fun person anyone would love to be around.
Because right now it sounds like you're waiting to get something from other people, rather than being cool and offering something to other people. Like positive emotions or a good time. If everytime a guy is around you he finds himself smiling and feeling good, he's going to like being around you. If you sit there, do nothing and just hope other people pick you you're just stuck waiting.0
Most Helpful Girl
You're over reacting. I'm 17 and haven't even had a first kiss yet either. I mean, might not be as pretty as you but I'm still a relatively nice girl and I don't judge guys that harshly. I understand you don't want to be with a guy you're not attracted but maybe when you stop being so judgmental and see past some things you'll be able to find the right guy.
But then again, what do I know?0